Ugh I hate guys

Ok so theres this one guy who I really like....hes extremely talented and I never thought I would ever like someone this much...idk i might even love him...but idk...he could get alot of girls...but yet he seems to love to be around me..and I was planning on talking to him about us until....I found out that this really pretty girl (not gunna mention names) likes him tons...i mean i don't want to get intimidated...but i mean...shes so pretty and put together...and its like i live on the edge of my seat....should I back off? I've never felt so inferior before...HELP

... So because this other pretty girl likes him, you hate guys? What?

Anyhow, it's not like she's taking him. And I'm taking it that she's not a friend of yours, so what's the problem? If he's into you, he shouldn't give a crap about her. Do you honestly think he cares if you're intimidated? If you want him, go get him -- if you're backing down because of a girl he's not even dating, you don't want him enough.

Besides, if just because she's pretty, he'd want her more, he doesn't deserve you anyway.
Crap I wrote it wrong the first time xD

Gosh are u ok!!!!!!! its really simple problem u dont have to hate guys coz its not there faults.. well its ur opinion so i respect u!

well i understand u,, but if shes really his girlfriend u cant do anything! try to give attention to other guys

They are not going out and don't start doubting yourself, it's all downhill from there. There is always going to be a beautiful girl out there and believe it or not to someone else, you are one of them, but looks don't win all competitions.

I think you should go for it. It's not like their dating or anything and if hes a nice guy then why would he pick her over you just cas shes pretty and everyone has beautuiful things about them outside and in and if you have a beautiful insdie then dont worry about it just go out and get him =]

First off, if he loves hangin around with u, he likes u. and dont be intimedated cuz of a girls looks! he chose 2 hang with u! there is somethin u have that she deosnt, and that seems 2 catch his eye.

If tht pretty girl is his gf then back off if not then you should fight harder to make him lik u.....

-can't answer to *i hate guys* - lol nothing to say bout that

but for the -lil prob- naaah don't back down. why should you? if he's single, then go for it. (well even if he wasn't... doesn't mean you can't) but if you're hesitating, then maybe you're not too into him. it shouldn't be a question to ask yourself.
(ever seen disney, follow ya heart) stop thinking so much , lol just follow. (gotta think a bit though... or more problems come out after. well.. depends , its a risk)

but don't back down n_n

Lol thanks for all the great advice! It turns out he liked me! And not her!!! So now i'm just waiting for him to pop the question! thanks so much...and or the record...i dont hate guys...lol

Loool
well thats good news n_n

of course you don't hate guys hahaha

LOL I just said that because I was mad..teehee

Lol XD

So another girl likes him a lot, doesn't mean he likes her at all. He could be trying to use her to make you jealous...or possibly use you to make her jealous?

Oh, and guys like making girls jealous. Not quite sure why...we just find it fun I think. At least I do. :)

Lol a little advice....on my post..lol....DON'T MAKE GIRLS JEALOUS! That is a girls pet peeve!

Loving someone doesn't mean you should expect him to love you back. Just love him, if you think that's how you feel. Let him feel it... True love stories doesn't have endings... Go for it! All of us is unique, that's why I know that you posses something that the girl you are taking about don't have.