Oh no im confused

  • Shanon
    16 years ago

    Ok...so when i was 14 i dated this guy and he broke up with me because he said he wasnt ready for a girlfriend and just wanted to be friends...and now im 18 and we dated again a couple months ago..and this time he broke up with me and im not sure exactly why but i think he was scared because he was goin to usmc boot camp and the fact that i broke up with my bf before him like a week or so before we started dating didnt help and his daddy left his mom and he is 1 out of 8 kids so he was kinda scared...but now he is back and he is staying...and eversince he got back its been awkward for both of us and the other day we were txtin eachother and he asked me what i wanted to do about the awkwardness...and i told him i didnt know and asked him what he wanted... he wont tell me until i tell him....but i started to be interested in this other guy but idk how he feels about me...but now idk anymore... i would like to give this other guy a chance if he was interested in me but i think i still have feelings for my ex... and i think i might just hurt this other guy because of it and i dont want that.... i REALLY REALLY need help!!!!!

  • Mel
    16 years ago

    Wow. ur problem is heard :]

    tell ur ex wat u want to do and then ask him if he still likes u. itll make it more awkward but at least ull b able to talk out ur feelings. and get closer to the new guy and mayb u 2 will end up going out ;D

    happily ever after <33

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    You have tried twice and it hasn't worked out, who knows lol 3rd time could be the charm, but to me it sounds like you need to figure out if all is truly over with your ex. Talk to your ex and figure out what you want.

  • Phantasma
    16 years ago

    Well if i were you i wouldnt do anything until i knew who my feelings were truly for if you go into this when your unsure someone could get really hurt.