Have you ever ...

Have you ever cared about someone so much and then have them just leave you and be left with no idea why and in the end all you tried to do was meet them half way and just be friends but they made it so hard so you just had to give up but then one day you find yourself being able to be friends with them and that those feelings are still there even though you thought they were long gone and you find yourself missing all those memories that use to mean so much to you and you start to think that maybe they still do have so much meaning and you begin to wish that you could just have one more memory like that just like old times. Don't you hate how it's so hard to truly be over someone? Do you believe that you still have feelings for them when you feel like this or does it just mean that you care about them because you once cared about them so much that the care can never truly be gone? Is there even really an answer that tells you how to get over someone or do you just have to wait and hope that in time those feelings will despair forever.

I know exactly how you feel. That's happened to me recently, actually. It's hard. Every situation and person differs, but for me, I still care for them, and when I thought that I was falling for them again I realized that I really wasn't. I was just wanting to get what we used to have back. Once something changes, you can't go back to exactly how it was before. No matter how much you want it to. And only time will help you get over them. But eventually you will feel better and be able to move on.

I can very well relate to this situation. I love my ex girlfriend, even though she kinda cheated on me with my ex bestfriend. We are starting to become friends again and its been 2 years. I know i still love her deep inside but i cant ever have her.

The best thing to do in this situation is just push your feeling to the side. They may not go away but if you trully love that person, you will push them aside for the sake of them. Its painful but i know i truly love her.

Misunderstood I'm glad you realized that you weren't falling for him. Your right about not being able to get back what you once had, its a sad reality but I guess we all have to deal with it.

Finalgravedigg er, thats such a sad story it must of been so hard for you. It's never easy having to just push your feelings aside like that, you must really care for her. I'm sure you'll find someone else someday that will love you and you'll love them more then you ever loved that other girl. She doesn't deserve you, if she cheated on you then your way to good for her. And what kind of best friend does that, if they were willing to do something like that then they were never your best friend to start with. I'm so sorry that that happened to you its so sad =[