Advice plz.asap...before i get more into him...

  • GorJESS
    16 years ago

    Okay......so quite not sure of what i feel .......i kinda have feelings for this guy....lets call him(blue)...lol...so i met blue in middle school...6th grade...i had crushed on him but nothing ever happend it was just a crush.......In 8th grade..i guess he started liking me...and it was surprising to me cuz i didnt ever think in 6 grade it would happend.....anyways....we started talking..and b4 u knew it we got together...we were together for like 3-4 months.....when 8th grade finished we went to diffrent schools..but we always keeped in touch(by phone)....Slighty my feelings just started growing for him.....in my eyes he was just so perfect......so i guess..i ended up falling in love with him...we were an a off and on relationship until the middle of junior year....There were alot of great memories....And im sure we both felt the same.....but the reason why it ended junior year was because..okay He lives like almost an hour away...and sometimes it just wouldnt work to see each other....and on top of dat he wouldnt trust me and he was very jeolouse.anyways......so one day he sent me a TXT mSg.. and he got caught cheeting on me,,......The chick was totally kewl and so she told me how he was trying to get at her.....so we found out he was trying to play us both......this had only been going on for like 2-3weeks..so i found out she was bi and so i was confused at the time,...so i told her i was too and me and her got together,...to F* him over.........but that only went on for like a day...watever the whole typical drama....he finds out....gets mad...and we stopped talking!!!!!..............................................

    Now its been like half a year.later gna Start my Senior year.....and outta of nowhere he calls me ::::and we talked and his like "ima go see u right now"(12 midnite) so he comes...we hang out for like half an hour....(just friendly visit)....

    So i found out his with that girl....i dont know.....he calls me every once in awhile... and were really kewl friends...really really kewl...but secreatly i still havent gotten over him.....i dont know what to do...
    i want to keep talking to him.....but then he has a GF.But i still think his the only one i would ever want to be with very happily. so idont know! Help PleasE...lol..
    i just dont understand if he was very happy with her already had moved on...why did he deside to come back to me after half a year...?????...

  • Painted Persona
    16 years ago

    Keep playing with a player and get played...

    Personally I wouldn't waste my time...

    You may never be over him, I know I still think of my first real boyfriend and Jesus what a bastard he was...can I say bastard? Edit me if not..haha...anywho. Sometimes it's hard to walk away, but honestly he walked his happy little ignorant way to you, what you should do if you can is just tell him that's it not right to be doing this. Lie if you must and tell him you don't have feelings for him. Doesn't much matter, like I said...keep playing, get played.

    He's just not worth this type of attention, mentally or emotionally. Not for what he did in the past and not for what he continues to do, it's honestly pathetic of him.

    Best of luck and wishes and all that rainbow crap right there...

    WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    "i still think his the only one i would ever want to be with"

    But you're not the only one he wants to be with, obviously since he has a gf and cheated on you when you were going out. Do yourself a favour and kiss him goodbye. Have some self respect and listen to your logic.

  • Misunderstood Misery
    16 years ago

    It sounds like he can't make up his mind about who he wants to be with. Honestly, I wouldn't go back to him. If he played you before with the same girl that he's dating now, who says that he won't try it again (either with the same girl or a different one)? I think that he did/does care about you, but maybe he's just wanting to recreate what you guys had before.

  • silvershoes
    16 years ago

    Wait. He has jealousy issues. You broke up because of 1 hour distance. He tried to play you and another girl. You got with each other to get back at him. He got mad. He has a new girlfriend. He's possibly trying to play you again. Now...Ah. This is too much for my little brain to handle. Too much drama. Too much immaturity. What the hell are you doing? This guy is a jackass. You're a bit of one too for hooking up with a girl a guy you're seeing is also seeing, to make him jealous. Twisted, that is. Twisted, twisted, twisted. What are you planning on doing? Screwing over this girl he's currently seeing? Being a girl on the side?

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    I'd move on

    lotza fish in the sea