First kiss.

  • ADreamToMyNightmare
    16 years ago

    Well i've been seeing this guy and everything and he's is truely amazin...he's sweet, funny, cute, and he's a really caring guy.
    well it hasnt escaped my mind till one of my friends asked me "have you kissed"...ahhh i always thought that you had to be officially going out or bf/gf to already be kissing....
    well i just wanted to ask all of you when was your first kiss?were you going out with that person or no? how magical was it? and did you expect it?
    i need help, is it time for me to take that into consideration???i need some advice!

  • sibyllene
    16 years ago

    There are no rules, really. Sometimes I wish there were, but there you go. No, you don't have to be going out. Some people are totally fine with kissing people casually, just doing it for fun, etc. Personally, I'd rather only kiss someone that I was at least planning on being with.

    My first actual kiss was when I was 17, with the fellow I had been going out with for quite a while. With my boyfriend now, we kissed before we started going out, but that sort of... sealed the deal, somewhat.

    Just wait for the time to be right. Or wait. You don't have to kiss him until you want to.

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    My first kiss was on my first date with my boyfriend...

    We were walking out from the cinema and it was a cold night so he wrapped his coat around me and he was really close to me and it just happened...

    I'm gonna be soppy and say yeah it was magical because it meant he felt the same way about me...

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    Well, unless you count my "first kiss" with my 3rd grade "boyfriend", then my first kiss didn't happen until i was 14.

    it was our first [and only =[ (not our choice)] date. and wmy best friend had called him and told him not to rush me into kissing him. and it was just so smooth what he did. we were holding hands and walking back to my mom's car [his mom and my mom were best friends, so they were shopping and stuff and we were on a date], and he just pulled me a bit closer and it happened =]

    there aren't any rules to kissing. just follow your heart

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    My first kiss was when I was 13 or so, and it was with my first high school boyfriend. We'd been dating for a few weeks I believe.

    My boyfriend now kissed me before we were actually dating (although it was pretty much inevitable at that point).

    I guess my point is that both of those times I was comfortable and ready for it when it happened. It all depends on the person, the kind of relationship you already have, and what you're ready for. Don't rush it, and don't force it. And have fun. :)

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    Haha well i think everyones first kiss is wayy different.....i dont rele think theres a right way to be perfectly honest. i mean mine i got when i was 12. we werer playing spin the bottle...lol yah ik ritte. there was 2 guys and 3 girls(including me) and it just so happened that both the guys liiked me and they refused to kiss the other girls...so the game was perrty much pointless. well one of the guys i rele liiked to and when he got me he asked me haha if i would care and i was liiike no so he leaned over and kissed me.....we were both each others first kiss lol....we ended up being of and on for a year and a half...and he fell in love with me...sad to say my feelings werent that strong =/

  • XLOSTxxANDxxWANDERINGX
    16 years ago

    Wow... my first kiss wuz in atlantic city... and it wuz with a guy i had jus met.. everyons is different, but once i kissed him we never saw each otha again... magic,no but it wuz fun i guess... be4 i kissed him i said i never want to kiss anyone i dont love, but then it hapopened... but if u like him go for it

  • Misunderstood Misery
    16 years ago

    Hah. Oh wow, my first kiss... was... weird.

    It was with a guy that I'd been "dating" since 3rd grade. We were in 6th when we had our first kiss. It was all snowy and icey outside and I was over at his house with him and his cousin. We were watching a movie when my mom came to pick me up. I realized that I forgot my soda outside in the snow, so we went to go get it. It was really dark outside and the only light was from the porch. I asked him if he wanted to kiss me and all he said was "Me break" (I was wearing those annoying little sex bracelet thingys and aparently they meant "kiss" *rolls eyes*) But anyway, he grabs one of them and breaks it. He leaned in to kiss me and his breath smelled like burnt popcorn (it was truly disgusting) and after that everything went black as he kissed me.

    It wasn't the best kiss of my life, but it was kind of sweet. In a way...

  • xXbrandyXx
    16 years ago

    Well.....my first kiss just happened about 2 months ago...and yes we were dating.....but it was so awesome.....he kissed me and i said wow!!!...it was something you never forget....so lately..when im with him...all i can see...or hear is him....and when im in his arms...all i can hear is his heart beat...it drowns everyone out....and this happened bc he kissed me

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    My first kiss was actually when I was 14. I had been dating this guy named Chris for a little over a year. We had a long-distance relationship though. So we were never able to hold each other or kiss in real life. So finally, he planned this trip to drive all the way from Ohio to California. He wanted to see his mom and little sisters. He also used that as an excuse to come to Arkansas and visit me =)

    So, we met up in the mall. I told him to be in Hot Topic, but apparently he didn't wanna go in. He wanted to wait outside the store for me. All of a sudden, I saw him walking towards me. I pretty much screamed infront of everybody and ran over to him. He smiled, twirled me around, and just kissed me right there. After that, he held me close, and we kissed each other so many times. Just to make up for the months we couldn't. It was amazing.

  • victor
    16 years ago

    Be with your luv in a quiet place then remain silent at a very close range,with wet eyes,it will just come by itself.If you need it go for it,but be carefull not to shift to any other act you don't intend to do.

  • Anne Garcia
    16 years ago

    Hehe, I'm already 17 and I haven't had my first kiss yet or anything. I am a virgin in everything. I mean everything! lol.

  • GorJESS
    16 years ago

    Hehehe...lol
    everyones first kiss is differnt..
    But heres an advise....
    dont ever kiss if u feel ur not ready!!!
    lol....kissing is not that big a deal...
    trust..i was mentally scared to do my first kiss..
    i was soooooooo scared to do it cuz i always tought what if i do something wrong so for like 3 years i went without not sharing myfirst kiss...untill recently my junior year...with an ex i hadnt seen in 3 years..lol..
    i took advantage..that i was only gna see him once
    n if i was a bad kisser than i would just have atleast finally kissed......but its not scary at all...
    its something natural...
    and theres no rules for kissing!

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    Honestly i dont even remember my first kiss. i think that people talk that stuff up way to much and then people get disappointed if its not perfect. if you like the guy and you feel like you want to kiss him, then why shouldnt you. You dont need to be going out with someone to show them that you have passionate feelings for them. i kiss my boyfriend. i kiss my best friends.

    if you feel like you dig this guy, and you wnat to kiss him then what else do u need to consider? Its not like you are having sex yet, its just a kiss .

  • Ahmed Ali
    16 years ago

    I don't remember mine either... Wasn't memorable...apparently :(

  • bre
    16 years ago

    I am kind of an old fashion girl..
    I don't believe on kissing before going out, or anything like that.
    But for some reason i kissed my boyfirend when we were talking and before we were going out.
    It wasn't all that majacial BUT after that kiss i knew that something was there between us..
    He asked me out a few weeks later.
    and we've been going out ever since. (A year and six months.)

    :)
    Take the chance, you never know what could happen.

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    You don't have 2 be in a relationship to start kissing,I had my first kiss when I was 15 and I knew the guy every since I was five yrs old,he was an alright kisser,my next kiss was not really good,and w/my current boyfriend now he is an amazing kisser,he always gets me to come back 4 more.

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    You dont have to be going out to kiss someone. But I think that its less confusing to the person your kissing bcuz then its just like "ugh...so are we dating?" lol and yea my first kiss...(my only kiss) was to guy I wasent dating..yea it was pretty awkward lol.