Seriously i need advice =[

Okay me && this guy had been off && on for 2 yrs && lately everything has gotten much better but his parents took all of his stuff away so he basically cant talk to me all summer.&& to top it off hes not going to my school and after this year i can transfer to his school but idk if i should leave that school for him so what should i do i mean im in love with this guy everytime i think about how much i miss him now i think about how ill feel next year && it brings me to tears.
HELP

Man, this is such a tough situation, im really sorry you are dealing with this.
if you love him, follow your instincts and hope for the best, i know this is kinda bad advice but there is not much else to be done.

Well, if u guys have been on and off, there could be 2 ways that could go down. somethin could go wrong while he is in his school (i hope uk what i mean if u dont pm me) and u guys could be off again. also, u could transfer (cuz u guys love eachother) and be together. but if u dont like his school and junk and ur not sure how the relationship will work out (since u have been on and off) dont transfer and just keep in strong contact. but...its really hard 2 fit ur situation. cuz u cant even contact him. damn! parents screw up a lot of things! =[

First off, your parents half to transfer you, it's not something you decide and then go ahead and do.

This isn't a tough situation at all, well, not as tough as others make it out to be. The reality is, you two have been on and off for two years now. I can honestly tell you, that the end result will be you two completely over.

I always find it a waste of emotional time to be on and off, to invest in someone and then it's over, ohhh but then it's back again...how confusing.

I'm oh so sure that you have great friends at your curent school, and I honestly think that there even might be another guy there for you, one who doesn't want the on and off thing, someone you can trust to be emotionally invested in.

"cuz u guys love eachother"

I don't rememeber her saying that he loves her...

I do know that he loves me && if i stay at my school im already 85% sure were over.

... So just because you guys don't go to the same school, you guys'll be over? What kind of relationship is that? If you guys have been going on and off for two years, then there's something very unhealthy about your relationship.

Well my worry is based on insecrurity it has nothing to do with him.i personally feel he will find someone better and that scares me.
&& us going to different school will effect us because we might grow apart.

If you fear he is going to find someone better, that can happen no matter how close or far apart you are. If going to different schools is going to break your relationship, how strong is it to begin with?

Honestly i know within myself i wont get paranoid or go physco.because im not that kind of girl.but its not that i think he'll be unfaithful i just think he'll think about how easy it will be to do so if were apart

&& this summer is not possible because as i said above he got in trouble

"i wont get paranoid"

"i just think he'll think about how easy it will be to do so if were apart"

Sounds like paranoia to me lol But honestly if he loves you and you trust one another, it doesn't matter how far apart you are, there are many ways to communicate.

It's not worth changing your life for someone, ever. If you are meant to be together and he really loves you, doesn't just like the sex, he'll find a way. We always find a way. Besides, he's a guy, if he has to be away from you for a few months, he would have had strong urges. That means he's already looking at other girls if not is with another girl. If he really loves you, trust me, he'll find a way. Don't change until you are positive. There will be other guys, but you have one life to live. Changing your life rarely proves worth it.

Lulu...listen very carefully...I totally understand how you feel...but I mean lets be real here..how long is this relationship seriously going to last if you can't talk to him, see him, or even spend time together...you guys can stay together as long as you want...but eventually you both are going to get very sick of having an invisible bf/gf. I'm really sorry I had to say that..I wish you the best of luck.

That is very true.but i know as soon as he gets his stuff back we will start talking && stuff but you guys make an excellent point accept for the fact that everytime i think about us i still tear up.

Aww its okay!!!!! If you arent gonna see eachother all next year then you have to find a good way to keep in touch and for hte summer problem let it go have fun and when he can talk make your decsion you may find a new guy!

XOXO
Kayla Grace Face=)