Plzz helpp.. Dont know..

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    Can anyone help me, I dont know what I must think, do or feel :(

    Yesterday I was soo over happy and not thinking about my ex, and now ive cried couple times :S

    My ex trying to make me jelous, and telling things about and stuff....

    Its 2 years agoo.... But still I never have fall in love again, And it feels like I never will feel love again :'(

    And the people around me in real life still dont understand me, and wont listen to me, and cant help me... Im on my own in real life, and it is so hard to survive...

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    `1. You will love again; the feeling will go away. Everyone gets it after losing, or it's just a phase that passes by. Just stop thinking about "love" and live life. It'll come to you when you stop waiting for it.

    `2. If he's telling you about stuff, don't listen. Seriously, he's your ex for a reason. Tell him to shove it and shove off unless he can hold his tongue and grow up. It's okay to just say it straight up sometimes, no matter how rude. Just don't swear, 'cause then it's kind of unnecessary, really...

    `3. You can't expect people to understand you, because they're not you. They don't walk in your shoes every day, and don't feel the emotions you feel the way that you deal and handle them. But if they don't listen, write your thoughts out. People can't always help you, and the people that you care about, or care about you can't always be there for you. It is hard, but you're still alive, right? Sometimes, you feel like dying, but you're not dead. So just deal with it, even if it hurts, pain will go away sooner or later.

  • Mister 47
    16 years ago

    Well i agree with borken reality she say it more then i can explain but if i may add,

    just think girl , :
    1- why is he doing that?? he is making fun of you?? if he is , you think you can accept that bad behavior toward you?

    2- if you start thinking you will only love him i think he win big time , and more you let him beat you

    DONT LET HIM BEAT YOU

    be stronger and act normal and ignore it completly you will tell him like that in beautifull way , that this girl is out of your reach , and he should go play with girl his age , becasue kids time show is over and eh need to go sleep soon or his mama will be mad

    act cool dont ever give him 1 sec doubt that you are intersted in his actions and you will give him the hard hit in his ass

    i hope you understand what i am saying

  • Flynel
    16 years ago

    Tnx for the help ;)

    But still..

    I act cool, most of people do think im over him,

    But the truth deep inside, I want him back, as great friends and hang out and such things, I really miss it !! How could I ever forget him?

  • Wake Me Up
    16 years ago

    My friend has never had a boyfriend or anything

    but she always feels that none of us understand her or know how to help her...because she always is really really random and extremely different that all of us

    she calls me her best friend....but all i do is be there for her and listen

    would that help if your friends did that

  • Chad P
    16 years ago

    It's not about forgetting him... its human nature - its what makes us human, our memories... Its ok that the memories are there, just choose not to dwell on them. And know that you're better off, this way... At some point you'll open your eyes (figuratively speaking) and see somebody who may have been there all along. Don't let us stupid boys get you down - we're really all pretty good at being turds.

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    I had the same problem, it is really difficult to let your first love go, i am in love again and i do still think of my ex sometimes but sometimes its better to just have memories, but dont hold urself back because sometimes its better if you just move on. i know its easier said than done but i promise it will make u happier

  • March Azel
    16 years ago

    Well ahmf seems like you still love him... u still cant forget him..but how sure u are??? that hes making you jealous?? because sometimes it was just our imagination that our X wants us to be jealous..because of the fact that we still love them and cant forget our feelings for them...
    all i can say is that if u are sure that ure X bf making you.. jealous..well talk to him ask and etc... discuss about you too..well 2nd chance are not that deadly...
    2nd if you are not sure if ure X .mking u jealous anyway..then maybe it was just ure imagination bec.. u still love him... and u miss the fact that he did loved u before... gets???

    but to make things clear..better for yah to ask him... if he still loves you... if not well ure just imagining that hes making you jealous,, if yes ..well be with him... remeber 2nd chance ..are not that deadly..Goodluck!

  • LoveHasNoLimit
    16 years ago

    I kno how u feel...but u just gotta keep livin...and just pretend like ur happy..and soon or latta out of kno where u'll meet this other guy...i kno how u feel..but thats life..try tellin him how u feel..exactly nooo..sumtimez guyz could be jerks but probably deep down he still lovez u...i dont think u'll eva forget him cuzz 2 years from now is alot..but just try to forget about your past even though its hard...