Stuck in the middle.

  • CourtneyyContageous
    16 years ago

    So theres this guy, i met him on here, but we started actually talkin about this girl he like, that he wasent sure liked him. so i gave him sume advice. and since then we've been talkin about everyday.

    we've kinda been flirting. so today he tells me this girl dosent even like him, have feelings for him, nothing. but she txts him and says she misses him and wants to hang out.

    so now, while im trying to help him out with this girl, this whole time i've been starting to like him.

    so what do I do?

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Um don't fall for someone over the internet..it doesn't usually turn out good.

  • SweeT pOisOn
    16 years ago

    Well...give him the advice he needs...bt don't go deep with ur emotions! control yourself and u feel...and always put in mind that this is PIXELS ON A SCREEN...u may only like the way he talks or the way he thinks or the way he probably flirts back...
    the most important thing is that u whouldn't get too involoved in something so unstable too quickly...give it TIME...it's the most important factor!! internet stuff doesn't always work...but i am not letting u down..bcoz i believe that nothing is impossible..but again, that's just me...maybe you're the realistic type of person that likes to see and touch to fall in love!!!

    all in all...keep goin on like u r...give him the advice when he asks for it...but between u and yourself, don't fall for him too quickly...make sure he likes u back first...he's in some kinda dilemma now, and maybe his feelings for u won't be true...so wait until all his problems fade away, and he's emotionally settled!!!

    best of luck!!

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Girl...please! Don't fall for someone over the internet. It is simply asking for a heartbreak. I'm really sorry to say that. But I am saying that to warn you. You could have no idea who this guy really is.

  • Sweet lig
    16 years ago

    If u like him just enjoy ur company w/ each other but u have to get to know him more ok!

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Yes, it online relationships can happen. But when Jess was talking about it, she never mentioned that she ever met him. Now Jess, you sound pretty patient and easygoing, therefore, it probably will work out. So yes, it can work...but only if you are willing to put up with never seeing him, never being able to hug him, or be conforted by him. Online relationships take a huge amount of patience.