HELP!!! WHEN IS IT TO EARLY

  • leah
    16 years ago

    ME AND THIS GUY THAT I MET HAVE BEEN GOIN OUT FOR A COUPLE WEEKS. THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN HE SPILLS OUT WITH ALL THESE SECRETS LIKE ONE NIGHT IT WAS LIKE 12 AT NIGHT AND HE TXTS AND IS LIKE MY EX GIRL JUST A HAD A BABY. AND UM LIKE ARE YOU SERIOUS. THEN 2 NIGHTS AGO HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. SO HELP ME BEFORE MY LIFE TURNS TO TOTAL DISASTER

  • limp
    16 years ago

    Yes, he's moving too fast. you should tell him he's freaking you out & he needs to slow down. tell him it's fine to tell you little things and let you get to know him but you can't marry him after knowing him 2 weeks.

  • CourtneyyContageous
    16 years ago

    Yeah i def agree with BANGBANG^^

    thats way to early, honestly he has some SERIOUS posessive issues if hes already wating to marry you.

    you guys are young, he dosent need to let you know everything at once, especially so early. thats for when you guys get deeper, and your able to open up to eachother, becuase you trust eachother.

    relationships take time.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Obviously you say no to the marry question. He seems possessive and a little nuts to be honest. Do you really want to be involved with someone like that?

  • GorJESS
    16 years ago

    Ummm...his soo weird...
    ummm..if his ex gf having a baby why would u even think about marring him...
    he obiously doesnt have himself together so just let him go. too much drama. and u dnt need that.

  • Sweet lig
    16 years ago

    Hmmm... u have to think a 100times ok!!!!! thats very hard decision...

    well goodluck !

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Be smart and rational, marriage is a big step. You should know that marrying someone you've just dated for two weeks sounds absurd. So there's no need to even ask the question. Sometimes you have to trust yourself with the decisions you make.

  • bre
    16 years ago

    You guys have been going out for a couple of weeks and he asks you to marry him??
    WAY to fast.. Let him know!!

    and if that baby is his.. Well you need to make sure that you are ready to be in a relationship with a boy that already has a child.

  • Shotput Girl
    16 years ago

    Woah! I say no to the marry question. He is moving WAY too fast. You need to stop and think too. Do you really want to be with someone who already has a kid?