I need help. The pain of the breakup is too much.

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    The emotional pain is hurting so much it's turning physical. However, I finally figured out a way to get over him. I need to get him to slap me. really. Am I crazy or something? I am reslly desperate. Please don't say that since I am young and stuff it doesn;t matter. It really does.
    Please,
    xoxZoexox

  • Hope
    19 years ago

    Here this post may help:

    http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/discussion/topic.html?topic_id=5284

    But i am quite sure a slap from him won't take away all the pain from a breakup and ur not crazy. It's just that after a breakup, u r overwhelmed with various emotions like regret, anger but mainly depression, which distract you from thinking properly and living on with ur life.

    Good luck and take care!!! 8)

  • alexander
    19 years ago

    You will have to believe in time after a while everything will be alright believe me

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    It's been over 4 months, people. It still hurts like Hell, if not more.
    xoxZoexox

  • Emily Eaton
    19 years ago

    Hey im recently going through a similar thing! Im finding it really hard to get over my ex boyfriend and its distracting me from my school work and making me feel generally depressed. I think because you are taking a while to get over him is cos he has to be your first love and your first love is always the hardest to get over. Im young too and maybe thats another reason! But time will heal and you'll definatly stop thinking of him! A slap won't help in any way sweetie cos he'll just think of you as stupid! Emily xxx good luck!

  • soulsignature
    19 years ago

    Your never to young to feel the loss of love or feel that kind of pain, anxiety, and frustration. It is a viscious cycle of ups and downs, as from your writing I can tell it is, and that is okay and totally normal !
    Do not - I Repeat - Do not get slapped.
    Instead Take all that love that you believe you may be wanting from this person and LOVE YOURSELF !
    Do NOT give up self love or respect for ANYONE EVER.
    If you really Want to get over him, LOVE YOURSELF, Take Care of YOURSELF, Stand Tall, Be the Best Person you can be, and Let HIM regret not having the wonderful person that is surely YOU !

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    I am, I am trying so hard to forget him, to keep my chin up and to find a way to get over him. I just wne through so much with him. I was there when his mom died, I was there when he was so depressed, Iwas there wheever he had a bad dream, I EVEN PUT HIS SISTER TO BED!
    It still hurts... I think.
    xoxZoexox

  • !*!Zoe!*!
    19 years ago

    OMG....I finally found another way to get over him. I didn't realise it was another way until I did it though. At least, I THINK I'm over him....
    xoxZoexox

    FINALLY, i HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOR ALOMOST 5 MONTHS!!!