What .... obviously that didnt go down well

I have been through alot of stuff in my life... and i just broke up with my boyfriend
we were talking literally 20 mins ago
and i started to tell him the overview of whats been going on in my life
his responce right away was
im not sure if i want us to be together, but like take a break till we both sort stuff out... if you know what i mean...

what do i do now?
i just told him my problems and he said that
ahah i have no idea what to do ??

The same thing happened to me a few years ago! i just think he needs time to think about what you've said..because some guys just cant handle girl that have been through hard times...i dunno why..but if he is going to leave you when you need him, then i say try to move on and get as stable as you can by yourself before you date again. just my opinion.

-hug-

He doesnt seem to be very supportive, that is a quality you need in a boyfriend. he is supposed to be there to help you and talk you through things. not run away and make it harder on you. I am so sorry this happened. give him his space, but maybe hes not right for u if he cant help you out when you are hurting.

Hi,
I am not an expert to tell anyone what they should do in their life...but I just share some thoughts..

The person who will abandon you when you tell him you are having a hard time is obviously a person who will not be around when you are death sick lying on her bed and having difficulties to breathe. This person simple is NOT worth of you. Anyone...who has emotional intelligence...would NOT do it.

Even if a person is a stranger or someone I don't know very well... If he says he needs my help somehow about something I can do it is my resposbility to help the person. And if this is someone I know very well and care about...you can only imagine... I would do my everything.

What I advise you to do is BE STRONG now. You can do it girl. You can manage about this life without any man. You don't need someone wipe your tears off... Let wind wipe them off!

Personally...I have bad experienced about this kind of people...And unfortunately most of people are not so helpful to you in this life.

I don't turn to people to get help. I turn to God straightly. Ask him to be with me in this hard time. Well...I don't know about you. Maybe you are not religious or maybe you are.

One thing I am sure: you can find a solution to solve your problems. Maybe it will take time...but...when you have enough knowledge about something...no problem is impossible to solve.

Just keep your head up now. Why would you shed tears for someone who does not care about you? No reason! You will find insh'Allah someone in future who will be beside you in good and bad times...