Is he cheating?

My b/f calls me everyday that we\'ve been together which is almost 11 months...except this week he has been acting a little strange. Well first off he didn\'t call me 3 nights this week which is very unusual. He calls me the next day and tells me that he was just very busy at work and couldn\'t even use his break time to call me. (He gets a 20 min break everynight that he works). He tells me that his boss was on his case and stuff, but even before that never stopped him from calling me. He used to say that he didn\'t care if his boss was on his case and that he just had to call me while he was working even if it was only for a minute. Also he told em earlier that he was going to call me right after he got out of the shower. He always calls me immediately after he gets out if he says he is going to. It has been a little over an hour and he still hasn\'t called me back. I think that is a little strange. I wonder what\'s up with him. I know I may be parinoid, but what do you think?

Be thankful he calls so much. I wouldn't expect somebody to call as soon as they said they would. Sometimes things do come up, and if that's your only reason to think he might be cheating, I'd re-think the relationship.

I'm just kind of parinoid from things that have happened in previous relationships between me and other guys and between him and other girls, but I guess I shouldn't jump to conclusions.

I wouldn't. I let what happened to me froma bad relationship affect how I was with mmy last boyfriend. Not only did my nearly ten month relationship fall apart, we barely speak to each other and had one conversation in a long while recently that didn't involve one of us having hurtful words said. Leave the past in the past. It's healthier for you. Unless you have definate proof, I'd put the idea to rest.

Guys don't think of things like that the same way girls do. You're over-analyzing things way too much. Appreciate that he calls as much as he does, and let it go.

Humm.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year a six months.
and a while back he started doing something simular that you described.
And i over reacted about it and confronted him.
He was working and doing all the things that he said.

(just keep a look out, if things don't get better with another week or so confont him,)

Evanescence made some good points. Personally having to talk to my bf everyday might eventually drive me crazy, some space is okay. You have to realize that it has been almost 11 months, it is eventually going to die down some, maybe he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings because you obviously find this to be important. Only the 2 of you can really say what's up, just discuss it and be honest.

I cant believe that he calls you everyday! thats intense. i have never had a boyfriend i've talked to everyday. i dont think he's cheating...but he COULD be...just keep a look out, but dont get paranoid. it's probably nothing.

I haven't confronted him about it as of now. When he doesn't call me at night he then calls me at some point during the next day and appologises and tells me why he couldn't call. (Usualy he says his boss was on his case and he couldn't use the phone or some stuff like that). Not to mension I have been sleeping over his house 2-3 times a week ever since I have been on my summer break. (My summer break is 3.5 months long). And during the school yr I sleep over his house once a week. Most people would think we are sick of being together so much, but I absolutely love it. I think I should stop being parinoid because I don't want to say something stupid and ruin our wonderful relationship.