Bi relationship help?!?!

  • Addicted to You
    16 years ago

    Hey um...I think I like this girl. She's JUST like me and Idk if she likes me back. She's SUPPOSEDLY dating someone but they aren't allowed to talk to each other. I really don't think its a relationship. Anyways, I'm really not sure if I'm bi or not...I just kinda started feeling different towards girls. I've never dated a girl...only guys. But I think I might like her...help me? Thnx!

  • CourtneyyContageous
    16 years ago

    Alright 1st things 1st here.

    I'm pretty sure alot of girls go through this stage in life, when their attracted to another girl. I think it's up to you to figure out if you really are attracted to her. Can you see youself with her? Can you see yourself holding hands, kissing ect.

    Or are you just a little curious?
    You've never been with a girl so there for it sprks your imagination.

    Once you've decided for yourself if you are or just a litlte curious for yourself here, comes the real test. You should tell her how you feel about her, You like her alot and you just want ot be with her.

    Put it all out there. and if you get shot down, learn from it. & grow from it. You can walk away knowing a little more about yourself. And that should be a good thing =)

    hahaz. hope i helped.

  • Lil Ally Kat Xx In love xX
    16 years ago

    Ok, first I know how you feel about whether or not you think your bi... I thought it was just a stage for me but it turns out I enjoy aving a realtioship with a girl, but first you need to play with it (and I don't mean in a dirty way) I mean test it out and talk to this about how you are feeling and whats on your mind... Trust me talking about it will help you out... If you have question jus ask me and I'll be happy to answer them!

  • Addicted to You
    16 years ago

    I've already talked to her and she knows EVERYTHING about me...I just don't know what she's thinking. I mean, I know she says that she likes me and I was actually the first girl she had a crush on. I can see myself with a girl...kissing her and holding hands etc. But I can't see myself going any farther than that...basically, I just need to figure out what she wants to do. She really likes her girlfriend but she can't talk to her...Idk.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Sexuality aside- she's in a relationship. So you should back off.

  • Lil Ally Kat Xx In love xX
    16 years ago

    Mmm well I dont know how else to help you in it... I mean if she does then where do you come in? And yea I understand your feeling in you don't know how far you are willing to go.. and its good that you talk to her...

  • Addicted to You
    16 years ago

    I know she's in a relationship but really...she's not in a relationship. She's not allowed to see or talk to her supposed girlfriend. I just am so confused. Thanks for the help!

  • cupcake
    16 years ago

    Well does she know how you feel
    telll her cause i was in the situation
    awhile ago except she was allowed to talk to her
    girlfriend and i didnt think i as bi
    and know im dating her

  • Lil Ally Kat Xx In love xX
    16 years ago

    Thats cool... I wish I could find a girl that doesn't lie to you about everything...

  • Addicted to You
    16 years ago

    ^^^aww I'm sorry you can't find anyone! :(

    Yes she knows how I feel I've told her

  • Lil Ally Kat Xx In love xX
    16 years ago

    Thats great u told her and I wish the best for u!!! And u jus gotta wait right?!

  • kla
    16 years ago

    Well i think if you really like her you should go for it even if she has a girlfriedn i mean if she cant tlak to her then she isnt really in a good relationship so go for it i hope it works out

    XOXO

    Kayla Grace Face

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    ^^I agree. You really should back off. If shes in a relationship, then obviously there is a reason why shes not breaking up with her gf. Not a good idea to move in now. And when you do, I think you should get to know yourself better and find whether you are bi or not.

  • J u l e s
    16 years ago

    Well I would say, if your not sure don't try. Its never worth the try because you are only feeling curious of the feeling of dating a girl. You never felt it so you want to feel it. See if it is different or if you like it. And if she is in a relationship I would say don't get in between it because you never know if she really likes this person or not. And the other person may like her alot, so if you get in between and you two get together the other person will be hurt. Either way some one will get hurt, right now just take it slow. And figure out if you really are into girls or you are not. Mostly its just your curious of the feeling. That is what I think.

  • Lil Ally Kat Xx In love xX
    16 years ago

    ^^ Thats a 100% true! About trying to figure out if you like girls but then again you can't help how you feel. And to be honest all you guys have tried to break someone or seriously thought about it! I'm not going to lie but I have, and then again its not a good feeling having it happen to yourself I know that!! But life is about taking risks and chances cause how else are you going to figure it out, you know.