Dealing with the games

Well, maybe she doesn't want to fall in love with a big player. Furthermore, seeing people know you as a player, how would the girl u want know what the real you is REALLY like??? There is almost nothing worse than falling in love with someone who is wearing a disguise and pretending to be someone they're not. You have to start looking at yourself from her perspective. I mean how would you like to fall in love with someone who plays with other ppl's minds without any concern for their victims' feelings??? But the worst part about this is that you don't know if this 'player' is playing on u too and all the affection you felt is just part of his/her evil game.
I guess you have to start changing who you are and ultimately, become a better person. You have to start treating ppl the way u want to be treated and slowly she may begin to trust you. I doubt there is an instant solution to winning her heart. Trust takes time and can't be bought, and only when she trusts you can she believe what you say like how you 'will never hurt her.'
Throughout life, we will continue to learn and I guess u've begun to realise what many adults have learnt, which is that many ppl only learn their lessons when they experience the consequences of them first hand.
It may be challenging and difficult to change who you are right now for her, but if you really do love her, it will only be a small price to pay. I hope you know what i mean.
As always, good luck, bon chance, and take care!!! 8)

First you cannot let her abuse you of hurting you she probably wants revenge or something and tell her I dont like that you hurt me .I have the exact same problem and maybe try telling her you like her and would like to go on a date with her who knows what can happen

*Alexander*

Insightful, Truthful, Respectful, and little painful, but your honesty and good intentions are worth it ! !
Great answer Hope.

Thanks Wyatt. I thought it was good too but as long as my advice helps, then I'd be more than happy to aid those in need. Good luck and take care. 8)