Is it over for us? Or is that his way of saying I love you?

Alrite so this guy that i like likes me back but i cant date til im 16 (date as in go places with a guy) and im 15. ill be 15 in november...hes 17 rite now and will be 18 in december...he promised he'd wait for me to turn 16 so we could go out and everything he said im the only one for him everyone else in his class is too fake and everything. we both have similar pasts...we relate to a lot of the same things...hes shy and doesnt trust many people becuz hes been very heartbroken as am i

its summer now and instead of seeign each other once or twice everyday now we jus talk on the phone or computer becuz theres no school, and im still not 16 yet...he told me he falls hard when he falls for someone he really likes and he doesnt believe i will wait for him becuz he has such low self-confidence. becuz im used to heartbreak, i kinda dont believe he will wait for me becuz well, why should he...hes almost 18 and hes a senior this year...why wait for a little sophmore...

he is extremely sarcastic and we're used to teasing and making fun of eachother a lot, becuz we both know its all in fun...we like it that way.
but lately hes been only sarcastic and he jokes about not wanting to be my friend or anything, and awful remarks like im stupid and stuff (becuz i say it first and he sarcasticly goes along with it)
the sarcasm is nothing new, but i do feel like that "spark" that made me fall for him is slowly fading becuz we havent physically seen eachother for so long, like in person. do you think this is becuz it wasnt meant to happen...so maybe itll jus die out and we'll never be together? will the "spark" return when we see eachother in September? i dont wanna lose him but sometimes i second guess myself...

Girl.... I'm sorry about what is going on. I had to ask my boyfriend about this one. He says that if you're second guessing yourself then maybe you need to stop and think about what YOU want and how you feel about that person. Maybe you need to ask him about it. Ask about his sarcasm. See what happens.

I totally agree here^^

Am so sorry to seeing how things r progressing with the both of u!!! i don't know if it definetly sounds bad or definetly sounds good!!! nothin is 100%...
but don't rush in the way ur feelin right now....don't totally forget about him...and don't totally fall head over heels for him!!! u still don't know how things will turn out!!!
the "spark" (as u say) may still be there, and it just needs the 2 of u to see eachother...belive me...things totally change once it gets to face-to-face...can change to the better...

so plz...just give it it's time...probably try to talk to him, u know, if he's seeing anyone...ask him randomly...don't show him any of ur true emotions yet...u know...ask him why he's been a bit not the same lately!!! u know...but don't make it too obvious!!! the most important thing is to give it time!! TIME is ur key factor!!!

so don't put ur head in the clouds and sit day dreaming about all the wonderful things that can happen between the 2 of u...but also...don't dig a hole and dump all ur emotions and feel depressed about it all...be ok with what u are right now, and u never know, maybe it will al turn out to the best!!!

hope this helps!!!
wishing u the best!!!

What he is doing to you i have done to a guy i liked cuz i thought he deserved better than what i could give him. i thought that i couldnt make him happy and so i pushed him away.

i would say that he does care.....a lot. but he is insecure and is trying to push you away so you can have better than what he thinks he can give you.

i hope everything works out.
i send my best wishes.
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Samantha

Well we had this talk yesterday and he said he thinks we should cut back on phone calls because we both feel strained to talk, and since we both are really bad at conversations we have nothing to talk about at all. He said that its hard because he doesnt like being able to see me every day at least once or twice. Then he saw my status thing on myspace that said "i think its already over". It didnt say anything about him but he guessed it was and he got kinda sad and said, "Summer changes things I guess". I told him I didnt want it to change I still really liked him. Then when he got offline he typed a <3 like he used to when we would talk all the time, and he hadnt done it for a while. Im just trying to pretend everythings fine and we arent together or broken apart...but its hard and I miss him...

Doesnt like being able to **NOT see me everyday

Hun...it's pretty clear that he likes u back..but he's just not showing in the right way! maybe he still needs time until he's sure about how he feels!!!
maybe he's waiting for the summer to be over!!! maybe he doesn't want u to feel it's some kinda summer love!!! (hope that makes sense)

anyways...just give it time, and don't stop being who u r...don't fake urself to impress him...and don't cut everything off...and about that staus msg on myspace...try changin it to something less obvious!!!

best of luck!!

Well for one good point every relation they have to say soemthing about love or like and get the chance to know

Ok heres my opinion, not being able to see each other at all is hard and if you're turning 15, its a year yet, which means itll continue be such. at the same time, if you feel strained to talk on the phone and never have anything to talk about, you must not know each other all that well. you should be comfortable to the point of silence not mattering and being able to talk about nothing for hours on end. its seems pretty clear to me he likes you but i mean, don't u hang out with friends? sneak time with him in there. pretend hes a friend of a friend n ur jus chillin. never seeing each other and cutting back the talking will only make it harder for you

Sweetheart... you poor thing...
don't try and rekindle any love... don't try and make ths happen, because if the spark is lost, there is no point in trying to get it back, unless when you are without him you feel like everything you are is gone.

if you can still eat, if you can still sleep, if you can still enjoy something and if you can still smile...

it's done... it's over... just live life and realize that your true love is still waiting.
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