Calling an ex?

Havent spoke to him in about 4months, it's been 8 months since we broke up, and i just miss him.. he was an ****** with me, cuz he broke all the promises that we made. he left me for some other girl who later broke his heart, and then he just got with another chick, with whom i think he has fallen in love... but i still think of him, and just feel like, he was the only one who i knew so much about and who knew about me, i felt comfortable around him.. and i feel like i may have the rights to call him. but would it be the right thing to do? and what can i talk about?

at one time in our lives we were so in love.. now he's gone into the arms of another...

would it be wise to call him and just talk..or would it be better i dont call... (would it hurt more to call?... would he maybe suddenly miss me by hearing my voice?) or would it just all go down the drain?... ierno how to deal.

i mean he've already broke my heart.. what difference would it make, if he spoke of his new girl? and how he's falling for her more and more... ierno... like its weird. would it leave me looking desperate? im not.. but just still hurt from our seperation.....

Listen to Amanda

Its weird, i just experienced this same exact thing basically. except i broke up with my boyfriend. but he was on my mind a lot and i wanted to call him and see how he was, i have a new boyfriend it was nothing love related, and his new girlfriend picked up and started yelling at me like i tried to hook up with him it was retarded.

in the end, it made me very upset and was not worth my time at all.

i say dont do it.

What's done is done.he is ur ex for a reason maybe one day you'll find someone 2

Hunny...BAD IDEA..I totally understand this feeling.. i have been through this before...I have learned from this feeling. Not good..now ask yourself...what happened that made him your ex? Him not being with you anymore is a privilege..use that privilage to find someone else. You should like someone who really could!