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  • devon
    16 years ago

    I told my girlfriend that she doesnt have enough time for me because everytime we make plans someone or something comes up and she changes them without thinking. Did i do the right thing?

  • sweet escape
    16 years ago

    If this has been going on for a while and you have tried talking to her about it and there still was no change then yes, you did the right thing.

    but if you just called it off without trying to fix it first then what you did was wrong.

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    If this has been happening for a while and you have previously spoken to her about it, then yes you did.

    Did you tell her bluntly or did you tell her gently?

    Maybe she wasn't aware that you felt that way.

  • Han84
    16 years ago

    Hey.. yes you were right in telling her that she were doing all that but personally if you split up with her over it with out speaking to her before about it all then no you didnt because you dont actually knwo if she knew she were behaving that way. and if you didnt before bring it to her attensions then she cant change it... she aint a mind reader! but by what your heart is telling yes you were right or no i have doubt now then.. well if in doubt then ring her.. love dont come round easily and if she loves you and you do her then she will be willing to change!! love dont come round easy and when its gone youll then realise what a mistake and that if you can wk it out then grap it with boith hands dont waste the chance..

    hope ive helped

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Teling her how you feel, yes, always the right thing. But you do have to know the line between telling her hoew you feel and accusing her of doing stuff that she might not know she's doing. In any case, honesty is the best policy. It's good that you let her know.

  • devon
    16 years ago

    No i didnt beak up with her and she seem like she didnt know she does it

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    I think you did the right thing...as long as thats what you wanted..then yes I agree with your decision.

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Just tell her. straight up

    "why do you keep changing plans?"

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  • megan
    16 years ago

    ^^agreed, you have to work at some stuff but at the same time you shouldn't always be ditched. talk. try to work things out. after that, then call it quits if its not happening