Why did she do that?

I don't know if this is the right forum to place this topic in, but if it's not feel free to move it.

Anyways, three days ago my b/f calls me up (like he does everyday) and told me that my friend Samantha called him and told him that she wishes she never hooked him and I up because I used to be her best friend and now I spend all my time with him and never see her. Then she told him what she would like to happen is that I only see him once a week and I see her every day. And if I happen to be with him at the time that she wants to hang out with me he is to dissapear.

I will admit that I don't see her very much since he and I started going out, but its not because I'm dating him...I do see my other friends...my b/f doesn't care if I see my friends, but I don't see her because she has started doing things I do not want to be involved in. I am still her friend, but I just don't know.

Do you think she is in the wrong by what she wants or do you think I am in the wrong by trying not to get invlved in her life like I used to before I gained better judgement with things of that sort?

I never said I don't see my friends...Actually I give my friends and my b/f equal time...Just not her. I mean I do see her just not as much as I used to. She wants to spend every waking moment glued to my hip and for no one else to be around and if they are they would have to scram. I just don't think thats fair.

Also ever since my b/f and I got together she has been doing things that I don't particularly like and when I bring them to her attention she denies some of the thngs and admits to some, but wither way they are things I do not want to be involved in. I don't think it is the fact that my b/f and I are together that has made her do these things I just think the two things happened around the same time.

I do want to be her friend still I just want to see less of her than she thinks is fair. I admit maybe I could give her a little more time, but I do not want to be glued to her hip and her hip only. I do have other friends and she doesn't care. She just wants it to be the two of us every day and I don't want it to be that way.

Am I asking to much? Is she right for me to be glued to her hip only every day of my life and never see any of my other friends or my b/f again, or should I see her some but less than she wants so I can spend time with her and my other friends and my b/f and have her mad at me?

How do I tell her that the comment she made about her wanting me to hardly ever see my b/f and if she is around to make him dissappear if he is around at the time is very rude and mean and hurtful without hurting her feelings more than I need to?

I really like your advice. You are a big help. I will say something of the like next time I talk to her.

Could you also help me with my topic "Relationship sabatage" you are a very big help, and I like your advice.

I think shes right in wanting to see you more but not in the way she went about it or how much... thats a little weird. but i think you need to sit her down and explain why to her... its not fair to let her hate you boyfriend for lack of guts on your part

I was in the same situtation, my best friend didn't want me dating my bf in the first place cuz she doesn't like him, and when I told her that me and him are dating she got pissed, and we didn't talk for about 3 days.

well then she decides to put her 2 cents in about our relationship, cuz I was spending all my time wit him and not her. she texts me and starts to fuss me out then she all of a suddens calls me and starts to cuss and fuss at me. so while she was doing that my bf is sitting next to me listening and then he tells me that he has had enough, and he takes the phone and starts to calmly talk to her. but she tells him that it has nothing to do wit him.....but it actually does cuz the whole reason my best friend and me were fighting was cuz I was with my bf the whole time...

needless to say I am Still wit my bf who I love to death I am the happier than I have ever been and me and My was best friend are no longer talking.

So My advice to you: Is if she is really your true friend then she would be happy for you and understand. she would go to YOU if she had a problem wit your bf. cuz she is your friend not his.

Good Luck and I wish you the best

Well to me yeah that is in the wrong for her to just go and do that without even talking to you about it first. Your still friends with her and she should understand that you are in love and like to spend time with your boyfriend a lot.

I have my boyfriend and I would spend time with him all the time and my friends understood yeah I would make time to hang with my friends but not all the time I spent more time with my boyfriend.

I moved out of that town and when I did spend with my firiends was when my boyfriend was hanging with his or if he was doing something with his parents or when I was at school.

Maybe you should make a little time every once in a while to hang with your friend and your boyfriend to spend time with his friends and it could make things better but not spend time with your friend everyday you have a boyfriend and that is what every girl does even boys is spend most all there time with there bf/gf.

My boyfriend and I are so close that I had to move away and he graduated and now moved with me so I spend time with him every second and that is what i love to do and none of my friends told me not to spend time with my boyfriend and to be with them all the time.
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