How do I tell him???

julia you need to tell him as soon as possible because the longer you wait the more it'll hurt him. yes it sucks but you gave it a chance you can't help the fact that you're not attracted to him. you just need to say it but also remember to get the wording right because obviously he likes you and you don't want to hurt his feelings. you have to do it sooner or later so just get it over with. here's my e-mail if you want let me know how it went. stefunky@sbcglobal.net

Sadly you feel like I feel about my husband. Take it from someone who knows.....TELL HIM. You will not only hurt him if you don't but you'll constantly hurt yourself.

For me now it is too late (I guess) and it is a mess. I'm literally only with him anymore because I don't want to hurt him and our lives are so intertwined. I can't take it anymore either, but I'm dealing with the mistakes I'm making rather than making the right choices.

Tell him while you still can. For both of your sakes.

ok u do have an excuse...u don't like him. U need to tell him because its not fair to him. tell him u are sorry that you have waited this long. but u thought u may have feelings for him but u never did and as much as it may hurt him, tell him that its just not meant to be. there is someone better out there for him