Hated and alone

Hi, I am a person who really suffers of being hated by some other friends and I don't know the reason for this hate.Some say because I am totally different than others. I am just trying to express how I feel, I am so lonely and sick and tired of being misunderstood of others.

It is a terrible feeling.

Yes it is...i am deeply sry you feel that way.

You know, i think you are the best friend i found on this web site. you are so wonderful.

Aww...*blushes*
shucks...thank you
lol
im glad i could help someone. if that is all i do in life i will be happy with it.

"I am a person who really suffers of being hated by some other friends"

Yet you refer to them as friends?

You will always be misunderstood by someone, it is inevitable. Learn to be happy with yourself, so that what other people think doesn't matter so much to you. Things only hurt if we let them.

Well thank you all, you really tried to help me. i am so grateful.

One thing I have always found is there always has to be a person who suffers abuse in any class workplace, school or group whatever. So even among friends people still find time to offer up abuse. Best if you can ignore and not react which isn't easy as most people take things personally.

One thing Ive found working at a call centre is that you get into a mode of letting the annoying remarks you here to go way over your head. And in that way its the best form of defense. Notso easy whenits your friends but maybe a word with the person just stating the facts and explaining how you feel, remember not to lay blame other wise arguement insure, so just say when you said this..... Ifelt really upset / embarrissed is there something I can do to avoid this etc.

You could always go on a rampage with a meat cleaver.... just kidding

Being lonely is the worst feeling in the world, if u ever need to talk, i am always here. Never feel like you are truly a lone because there are people who care deeply for you. Keep your head up and try and meet new people because if ur "friends" are being mean to you just because u are not the same as them, then you dont need the negative influences in your life anyways. You are yourself and that is beautiful because individuality is something rarely perserved in these times.

Thanks to you all for trying to help me. I am really trying to work on your advice.

I am working on that now.

They don't hate me for expressing my felings, I am a person who doesn't talk a lot.I think they hate me because I am so shy and don't know how to talk,because I am not that social person.

I really don't know why, I said at the top they hate me because we are different and they make me feel this difference, but I don't know what it is.

I don't want to give you my whole life time story -but you need to accept you are different , you are not hated its just that one person may not like you so for that reason everyone has to hate you. I was alone in my old school because, to tell you the absolute truth- i had become the bully because at first i was the victim. So acceptance is the hardest thing of all but you have to.

You can see my lifeline of how i became the bully in a poem i wrote. Its called 'I've become the bully'

Yes,I do really understand you,but I wasn't bully with anyone and as I said before I don't say the truth to anyone in his face.

Wow.. you know in a way.. you remind me of me. It's cool really. To know that there are others out there, who just listen to what everyone else says.. and I guess some say we are the "shy" bunch. I find it quite weird how.. I can talk forever and ever and ever with some people. And then ZIP.. nothing to others. lol But see my whole thing right now.. and I'm happy just the way things are going. I have this great relationship with God. And I find that is all I need. He gives us just what we need, and is there in times of trouble. We just have to trust him. Of course.. Not everyone believes in what I believe. But I am just pointing out the way I live.

God bless.

Never feel alone or hated!! Never!

Yes actually they are.

People just dont like whats different..
but there are some that do. Instead of wasting time with the ones that don't, look for the others.
Maybe you're not looking in the right places...

I think you are right, but I think looking for the place where you can find true friends is really hard nowadays.

People can treat you so much differently for such simple things...like your hair for instance..
Feeling like that is probably the worse thing you could feel. It hurts a lot...Where I live...In Dubai...there are so many people who treat me different because of the way I look or anything like that but I suppose that's everywhere. People tell me it's just because they are snobby brats. But they make you feel so terrible they make you feel as though there is no place on this Earth where you can all simply get along as though everything is settled in it's place. They make you feel unwanted....Sometimes it feels like your walking through darkness and your just lost...lost inside yourself slowly fading into the darkness in search for the path that suits you but you cant because there is no light...nothing to guide you whatsoever...no one to lean on and no one to tell you its okay? I actually hate it when people tell you it's going to be okay..when it's really not =/ But basically what Im saying is its a horrible feeling and ever once and a while you get that in your life....everyone you know has probably felt it...They may not have had the same experience but they do in a sense understand your emotions. And don't let people judge you differently from what you are :)))))) Show them you dont mind. Because to be honest you shouldnt care just as long as you know who you are yourself..Okies
xxxx love you all loads mwah xxx

A true friend can be found anywhere, the problem is we always seem to get in this rut where we gravitate towards the same type of person over and over again, broaden your horizons and look outside your box.

I hate feeling lonely :( its horrible...

Yeah I know your pain, I'm different from most people and no one really understands the true me

I also feel the same way..like being an anti-social and not being friendly with other people...it's really painful to know that no one in this world can understand you except yourself..but just dont lose hope..i know this might be really painful, yet you still have to try...i know someday,somehow a true friend will come to comfort us..and will always be true to their words...

Heba, I told you like a million times, they aren't your friends, I've seen how they act and I got fed up with them too. They are still in our society and we can't run away or hide, because that will end the life we're living and we have to deal with them. Don't hide away from them and don't expect too much from them, that will only lead to depression and misunderstanding. I'm always by your side, and believe me when school starts I'm gonna be a very different person, this year isn't gonna be like last year... trust me.

Don't worry hun, everything is gonna be ok. *winks*

Oh thanks zahra.you are so kınd dear

Then theyr not a true friend,
just have fate and true friends will come ur way,,

Yes, for sure...
always been so alone....