Can some one help?

  • Brittany Michelle
    16 years ago

    OK... my best freind said that I had changed since I started dating this other guy...
    but I also been stressed from family issues
    &&& my fiance && I had been fighting over weird things...
    && now I accidently took my anger on my BFFE.. but she said that she liked before when I wasnt happy...
    wat am I to do?

  • LiveLoveLearnDie
    16 years ago

    It depends, have you changed to being a happy person?
    if so tell them that they should be happy that you are finally happy. when someone shows an emotion they havnt shown in a while people see you as a different person not always the same.
    your still the same person on the inside tho right?

    sorry but you might not want to hear this but, i honestly dont think she is worth your time if shes your bffe and can say things like that, i mean its pretty hurtful eh?

    and...it depends what the family issues are, think...do i really need to get stressed over this? try writing down your anger, or just blurt it out at someone, not someone close to you who could poss judge you(it happened to me) but maybe a counsilla or someone on this site, there are so many people who can be an hear and give awesome advice, i know from experience.

    feel free to pm me and say what ever you want k?
    just smile and keep going

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    I don't follow. You started dating 'this other guy' but you have a fiance. Uh, what? Please tell me they are the same person.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    People are ever changing, I am sure over time your friend has changed as well. She needs to realize yes you are friends, but it's not all about her and you have things going on.

  • BlueEyedMystery
    16 years ago

    I was a little confused by the whole other guy and fiance thing, but that doesn't really matter. You should never sacrifice your happiness for anyone. If she's a real friend she'll want you to be happy at any cost. :]

  • Ashley
    16 years ago

    If you changed to be a happier person and your friend don't like i am sorry but that aint a true friend

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    You are so happy now and your friend can't take that...so either shes extremely jealous or maybe you have changed a bit...and if you have changed.. oh well. People change all the time. That is how life works. You live, you grow, and in order to grow, you have to change. Shes not a true friend if she cant see that. I totally agree.

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    If you are happy, then your friend should be happy for you. If she is noticing changes in you though then maybe you should take her feelings into consideration as well because i know where she is coming from. Try to keep a well balanced relationship with ur man and ur bff, balance is the key to happiness.