Anyone care to help

Well my ex and I have a great friendship... Well atleast I thought we did, it's just he gets mad at me for things that shouldn't matter. I was told by him a few days ago that I don't truly know myself and I don't know what I truly look like. I am not sure if holding on to this friendship is a good thing or not. He hurts me a lot and I just don't want to get hurt by him anymore. But if I do not talk to him I feel like I am mean or being selfish. Is it selfish to just want him to be nice. After every thing he has done to me though I am always able to forgive it as if it never happened. Do you think I should just let go of this "friendship" or try to hold on to it

Well, I think a person can only take so much. You said he hurts you a lot, and if he's really wanting this friendship to work out, I think he would try his hardest not to hurt you. I don't think that not wanting to talk to him makes you selfish at all. Sometimes people just want their space, and want to be left alone.

Basically, I think you need to decide where you, yourself, will draw the line. I wouldn't think much of a friend if they just continued to hurt you, especially if you talk to them, and they know that they are doing it and continue it.

``Briana

You put friendship in quotations, so that's leads me to believe it is not really a friendship but a broken relationship. You also say you are tired of being hurt by him, but really you are the one hurting yourself by allowing the behavior. Walk away.

I understand that you will always have a special place in your heart for him, i know. but why do you want him in ur life if all he does is give you negative vibes? friends are meant to be the ones we got to for advice and comfort, not to be shut down and criticized. just think about why u really want to stay friends with him. is he good company or are u just afriad of letting go?

Okay, i have been in this situation before!!! Like a week after we broke up i couldnt help but wanna be with him again so i thought if we were friends we could find we never ment to break up but it was a bad idea we hugged and it didnt feel like we ever broke up so when ohter girls liked him i got so jelous and i wanted to help so i told him this girl liked him and a week later i had to watch him ask her out it wasnt good at alla nd then everytime we were firends somthing would happen and he'd get mad so right now a year and 4 months later were still not friends but it helped me move on and find great guys<333 so i think you should let it go it will work out for the best<33

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