I miss him

I reallt loved this guy i dated like 9 months ago and we tried to stay in touch but it just fell apart!! then he dated this girl i really hated but we started to be friends (me and the girl) and when they broke up i tried to make a move but he didnt answer my texts i have no clue if he has texting anymore tho but im afraid to call but i know he would go back out what do i do?? i really miss him should i call or no???

and i dont know what to say what should i say

Call if you want to call, there is only one way to know what's up.

^ I second that.

Thatnks but what would i say i mean we havent talked in ages

Hey I just thought I would call and see what you were up to since we haven't talked in ages

^^OHHHH I see how it is, you can go and give her advice but you NEVER call me, and we haven't spoken in AGES beauitfulchaos, thanks for thinking of me...punk face....

Anywho, just do what B to the C says, or she'll eat you...no really... it all depends on where you think the future might take you as well as why it ended in the past.

I have an ex that I think of often, I miss him, but I knwo why it ended and personally don't see the future being any brighter...it's your call hun.

Thanks i think i will i just got to think for a while cause i have to figure this out i mean we lasted for like 4 months but hes 1 year older so we were in different hallways and now im in 8th and hes in 9th so if we started to date i wouldn ever see him with school and soccer and dance!!

Thanks yeah your right i have to look into the past and see if its worth retrying thansk for the advice

Say whats on ur mind. let ur friend know wahts up just so she doesnt think u were being sneaky (people get crazy ideas in their heads sometimes)
just tell him whats on ur mind.

^I agree...tell him exactly how you feel.

Thanks!! I think i will Soon hopefully i need to ge the courage LOL =) thanks

I was in this situation, except it was a bit different. me and my now boyfriend have dated multiple times. and after our 4th time, he was mad at me [even though he broke up w/ me] and we didnt talk for a year and a half. and i thought of him almost everyday the entire 1.5 years. and then one day i thought i'd try to add him on myspace. and he accepted..i was shocked. then we started talking, and wa-lah. we're together. lol.

you might as well try! what do you have to lose?! =]

and actually james, my bf didnt have texting when we 1st started going out, and i didnt know that and i'd text him all the time but he never replied. and then like a week into our relationship he sent me a text saying "woot, i finally got texting on my phone again!" lol. i felt stupid. but i didnt get anything saying he didnt get texts..so yeah..

Theres no way that you could continuously txt him and call him without him getting them. If he doesn't answer you back, then just let him be. His loss.

You can call him , just keep your cool

like simple things "how are you" "whats going on?"

and so on, then turn it into a lil convo, but dont 4get to lead back to him (like to date him again)