Should i move in????

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months we are still really happy. He has been asking me to move in with him for about a month, but i'm not sure if i should. I love him and i stay there everynight and it would certainly be alot easier for both of us finacially. i'm just not sure i want to give up the independance of my flat because if we broke up i'd be back to square one!I'm not sure if the doubts are just a passing thing or i should listen to them but then i also feel guilty that i have such little faith in our relationship in the first place. Should i move in with the love of my life or wait a while until these doubts go? ADVICE PLEASE!!!!

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Hey! Okay...let me explain my answer. HEHE

My boyfriend, now husband, and I met back in April of 2006. We started dating and I had just turned 18 back in January. So, I was getting an apartment on the 27th of April. Immediately after I got it, I kept inviting him over for dinner and movie. AND it just so happens that he would wind up staying the night. He did this for a month before we actually asked each other if we were now living together. LOL

i'm teling you this because I don't regret my decision at all. I think moving in together was one of the best decisions. I do think though that we definately moved way to quick...but you have a good 5 months on him...i think you are good to go. You pretty much know alot about him. i say go for it girl.

but i too at the same uncertainties. But...in the sake of love, sometimes you've just got to do foolish thiings. :)

good luck! let me know if i helped

I don't think it is about having no faith in your relationship, I think it is about security. Moving in together is a big step. If you are not 100% give it some time.

Wait until you're sure about it. You don't want to do something you'll come to regret, and moving in together is a huge step. He shouldn't be offended that you want to be sure before giving up your own place- five months isn't THAT long to fall back on if you start having problems.

Lots of things change in the first year of a relationship... You're great together now, but forcing the intimacy of living together too soon could put extra strain on your relationship, which still needs time to grow and strengthen. Wait until the two of you are totally certain and ready, and DON'T do it just for financial reasons.