I wish he'd make a move...

  • Lorreign
    16 years ago

    So I like this guy at work, and my gut and my friends say he likes me based on...events I guess. We've hung out like three times now and each time I initiated it. The first time I asked over our radios at work if anyone wanted to go see the midnight premiere of Indiana Jones. He said he'd go, and that I could call it a date if I wanted to (lol, I never did...maybe that's my first mistake...I worry that that was his big move but I didn't act on it so it got his hopes down.)

    The second time we were in the break room cause our lunches overlapped. We were talking about movies (seems all we can ever talk about) and I said I wanted to see Hancock but didn't have anyone to go with (yes, I was hinting.) He said he'd go. So I met him at the theater that night. It was July 4th.

    This third time, he kept asking if I was going to the batman midnight premiere. I told him I'd think about it cause I had to be at work at 9 in the next morning. But I decided I'd go, cause the way I figured I could operate on 5 hours of sleep (turned out to be even less, I couldn't fall asleep so I only got like less than 2.) So I sent him a text saying I was going.

    I met some friends and we were going to go out to eat before we went, so I decided to get even braver and I sent him a text message asking him what time he was going to get there, and told him that we were going to Hooters and asked if he wanted to go. He asked who was going, I told him, and he said sure. So he met us there, we hung out and joked around then went to the movie. AND he dressed nice too (well so did I lol).

    But it was a great time, and I'm glad I went.

    But it's like, I think it's really starting to put a damper on my hopes because it seems that it's only me that has a pair. Or it's starting to make me wonder if the possibility of him just not liking me like that is even more well, possible.

    I'm still not brave enough to just come out and say to him that I like him. But aren't I putting off some signals by wanting to hang out with him and stuff?

    BAH. lol. Are you a mover? Or a waiter? I just like to talk about things. ^_^

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    Why wait for him to make a move, he has been responding to yours, stop beating around the bush and just go for it. It's the only way you'll ever know anything.

  • ArcadiaVera
    16 years ago

    I'm a waiter... Which is bad ive experienced...
    thank god drew is the mover.

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Def a waiter. Lol I have to have a guy that is a mover or else nothing will ever happen. lol

  • ArcadiaVera
    16 years ago

    James, ur so lucky...

    It must be so easy to be a mover... Relatively...

  • Alissa aka CR4LYFE
    16 years ago

    I think its cute that u wanna wait and that's ok but I think u should tlk to him..rejection is neva good but I doubt thayt will happen, he ovibously likes u or else he wouldn't waste his time. Either that or keep throwin hints, but gurl I did that and I ended up havin to swallow my tounge wen my love ended up wit another