Could I get her back?

Here's the deal. My girlfriend broke up with me. Randomly I might add. Her reasons: I never told her how i felt (which I ended up doing), she didn't like how i talked to her (but honestly nothing serious), she wants to be single and alone for a while, she lost feelings for me becasue I never told her how i felt. Just a bunch of little things that added up.

This girl was head over heels for me and ditto for me. Does anybody have any suggestions for me to get her back? Would it be possible? And she already likes another guy. Less then a week later.

It really is a big step she made,but you have to understand why she did.
i''m a girl (obviously) and sometimes a girl would like it when her bf tells her how much he cares
But if she likes another guy, it will hard for you to get her back.
my answer for you: it is 60-4o chance, you being the 40% since, she is being charmed by this new guy and getting more feelings for him
but all i could say is try,she may somwhere still have feelings for you. and win her back

I guess i should mention that the guy lives five hours away. and i think hes still in high school.

Oh, that kindamakes things less bright

Sounds like a bunch of excuses to me if she already likes someone else. Don't waste you time, move on and find someone who likes you.

OKay i think you should try and win her back. You've been given an opportunity here most girls wouldn't give you the satisfaction of an explanation as to why she dumped you, so now you should take what she's said on board. treat her with respect, talk to her how you yourself want to be spoken too, and let her know how you feel occassionally but just explain that you find that hard, she should compromise.
As for the other guy maybe she does like him but long distance relationships are hard and if she wants to be single she shouldn't be rushing into any other relationship. you should give it all you've got if you really like this girl, what have u got to loose. don't ruin things twice. But if she still doesn't want anything you will have to move on it takes time but will happen.
good luck i hope things work out. xxx

Try to win her back

I understand how this girl is feeling...sometimes we just get this feeling and just want to be alone for a while. My guess is, she will want you back sooner or later. Maybe...and if not, just move on. Sorry, it's the best advice I have lol. Good luck

I suggest giving her a little space before trying to get her back. Clearly she needs some time to think, and maybe she'll realize what she's missing after she doesn't have it.

And if you are successful in getting her back, then take into account what she said. She told you what she doesn't like- so I'm sure she'll appreciate an effort from you to make her happy.

Good luck.

To say it in the nicest way possible, you need to move on. Obviously this girl had her reasons to dump you. She moved on, so I think you should too.

This is to Angelina Pogorelich. IF SHE NEVER LOVED HIM OR LIKED HIM THEN WHY WOULD SHE GO OUT WITH HIM. and to ^ the person on top of me don't you think that the girl should tell him why they broke up. ant to the person with the problem this will clear up just look for the best and you will bet the best.=)

We're 18...not fourteen.

The best thing to do is give her space, act as though it doesn't phase you know matter how much it does trust me... I was in the same boat as you about 6 months ago and only when I cut her out of my life completely was the spell of mental retardation lifted... she even got a new boyfriend in an attempt to get over me. Long story short he got dumped and I got the girl... and I didn't do diddily squat. The harder I tried the further I pushed her away, the further I pulled away the more she wanted to be with me. Its pretty lame how things work that way I know, but thats how the story goes.

Well, I was in her situation & now im back with the guy who'se supposedly in your shoes. What the guy did was write a looong message on myspace & it really touched me so i started considering him. BUT he didnt do what I would really appreciate him to do: put into actions all the feelings he stated in words [actions speak louder than words] give her little stuff that can be appreciated [flowers, short notes, your poems, etc] most of all, apologize. & VER GIVE UP. most girls [especially me] like boys are persuasive.

"Broken hearts are often caused by unspoken words"
- bare that quote in mind

^I completley agree with that. Did ya ever think that you actually did something wrong? But hey, its a way of life. We all make mistakes. We just have to learn to accept we make them first. Actually, I agree with James also. This seems very childish. And it sounds alot like you are actually 14. So really what does that mean for you?

Why the hell are you still trying. I'm confused about it... If she was immature to break up with you randomly.. and not speaking to you about how she felt before... is just insane. Stop wasting your time, please

And plus.. remember.. she broke up with you for a guy that lives 5 hours away, sounds like she wants you to be jealous. She wants you to fight for her, and by doing that she will see how much you really care for her.

All depends how you look at it... You could do both and still be happy.. i know that doesnt help but im not you and i dont know what you like.

Why is everyone being so nasty, the guy obviously cares about this girl and getting over a break up isnt easy neither is slating this guy for caring!
the only way you will find out what this girl wants is to ask her hun and give her time to think things through and if she dosent want you then you'll have to move on she obviously wasnt right for you in the first place. x

Give her time to let her clear her head. Girls can be crazy sometimes, i know this because i went through a similar situation where i was doing the same thing ur girl did. Show her u are willing to change for her because u are crazy for her. remind her why she fell for u in the first place. show her u are willing to do anything it takes to be with her.
show her that u can be vunerable too and that it is hard for u to open up, but u are trying to do it for her.

Its hard to take the risk, surely it will struck you afterwards...but if it will make you happy and satisfied...go on...

After four weeks without her, i think i got her back.

Think?

What? Explain how you "think you got her back."

It is plain simple she never liked you and maybe she felt sorry for you

do yourself a favor and find someone better

Nothing is impossible in this world. You can do it but you really have to win her heart. If you don't win her heart back. Move on.

No i have her. she is starting school, not far away, and she wants to see how things go. ive got her though.

"she wants to see how things go"

You don't have her lol It's a test drive.

Come on! i know that. let me have some false hope.

Lol It sounds like you have lots of false hope.

It was never false...if you get my meaning...

Umm yeea I agree with everyone in here. What are you talking about. So you have her?

I'm confused, you said you want her back? But now you're saying you have her.

Exactly so. We are back together.

So u are? good! =]

but you need 2 tell her how you feel, its a blah relationship if you guys dont exchange words

Well that is good that you got her back but I say just don't fall for her fast take some time cuz she in a way broke your heart once and she can do it again so just be close and get to know each other again just don't fall back to fast...but that is just me I have seen things happen before just because my parents did it and now they are no longer together after getting to gether breaking up over and over again for 13 years. so just don't fall back into it to fast.

Apparently he "already has her." I don't buy it but maybe that's just me

She broke up with me two days ago...

Yeah i should have listened. to everyone.

It seems that she is trying to let you down easy....
girls like romantic guys that can express their feelings.

It seems that she is trying to let you down easy....
girls like romantic guys that can express their feelings.

That is exactly what she is doing. letting me down easy now so she feels better about her decision. she said that she does want us to work out she just needs to get the whole college thing down and firgure out what she wants. i wish i could just blow her off but she is worth it to me. and the guy tom she met her first or second day. it all began when she started texting him...