Insecurity or Jealously

Alright there's this guy I know, he's also on here. We've talked for about the last month or so. And we've flirted, and well, became very close. A couple of days ago he told me he loved me, and I felt the same exact way. One thing; were not together. But on both of our profiles we've written about eachother. Now I used to be the only one's on his 'Favorite Authors' page, but I see he added another peson. So I went to go check out their profile. It was another girl; but that's not that aprt that bothered me. She's also written about him on her profile as well. He tells me almost everything, but neve mentioned he's talking to other girls. Maybe im just jealous. But I may be feeling this way due to the fact most of my ex's cheated on me, or fell in love with someone else. So what do I do here? Ignore this feeling...or simply ask him about this girl?

confusing I know.

You are not going out, but none the less, i would ask about it, though just because you ask doesn't mean you are going to get an honest answer, from him anyway. You have only talked and flirted for a month or so, yet you profess your love for one another, seems more like an infatuation.

^^ Awh i mean I've known him for a while...but we recently admitted to liking eachother...cant stop talking since then =)

Even still, if you have never actually met, it is more like being in love with the idea of someone because until you meet face to face, neither one of you really know what you are getting.

And you should never ignore your intuition, especially with an obvious reason for feeling that way, sitting in front of you.

My view goes like this:

You don't know each others in real life, every day life. Even if you would there would not be a chance to watch after him twenty-four seven. So, there should be some trust between you and him. Other wise the whole relationship will go down soon.

Yes, it is natural to feel jealous in this situation. Some people are more jealous than others. But what I think is instead of posting a new threat why don't you ask straightly what is going on and explain what you feel and why.

First of all- you aren't exclusive. Since we know he doesn't actually "love" you (it's only been a month), maybe he's just screwing around.

Second of all- Her mentionning him in her profile doesn't mean they even have a thing. They could just be friends. I think you're being a little paranoid about it.

Third of all- It's ONLINE. If you are that insecure or jealous or whatever, then you should get someone in real life. You will never feel safe in an online relationship (if you can even call it a relationship) if you can't handle a girl mentionning him in her profile.

Girl please. You have never met him. You don't know what kind of person this guy reallly is. And you have only started talking to him for about a month. And you "love" him? C'mon now. I know you can find someone waaaay better for you. And you will actually know him. Love is nothing but a word; A word used way, way too freely. Plus, online relationships are something that you don't want to get into. So my advice is to just move on. Its great that he is your friend, but really. Find someone you actually know.

If u arent dating then u really have no authority over who he talks to. If he is saying he loves u though u should just double check and make sure whats going on. Just tell him u feel like there a mixed thoughts going on because u saw that stuff on the other girls page. Confront him about it