A new direction ???

Heres the thing...........

I met this guy around xmas last year we found out we were attracted to each other and he didnt date cause he was hurt alot in the past but we were friends with benifets after abotu 3 months we went out.............. he broke up with me cause he drank alot and he new he would get drunk and cheat on me its just who he was at that time since then he has stoped drinking and has gotten with a good friend of mine i feel bad cause i still havnt buried my feelings for him he is my best mate................

what i dont understand is that when he found out i spoke to a certain guy he hates he went skitz were does he find the right to do that the thing is he dumped me im confused as to what he wants and if i should keep on talkin to this other guy as i no i am devoleping feelings for him

I bet he prolly feels possession of you. but i guess a lot of boyfriends or ex boyfriends do. mine does a little too. =)

but i think it's natural and he should get over it over a period of time...

=)

vera

^I agree with that. Thats how it is with ex's. At times, after a relationship, they still feel like you are still theirs and no one else should have you. Lol if that made any sense but thats how it is. If you start to have big time problems with it, then just talk to him about it. But I really thnk he will eventually get over it.

Ok so he wouldn't date you, but you were good enough to have sex with, he has a drinking problem and admits he is likely to cheat on you so he dumps you and he is now with one of your "friends". Seems to me that you are going to be his fall back girl because you do whatever he needs you to and you believe everything he tells you. Here's hoping you move on to something better.

U need to let him know whats up. If he expects u to sit around and do nothing while he goes out and gets with other chicks, that is just selfish. I know it is risky but if u really want to get back with him, tell him how u feel. If he was afraid of getting hurt then why did he go with another girl?
Love is risky, and if he is to afraid to risk putting his heart out there to be with u, then maybe he doesnt deserve u.