Your bestfriend's boyfriend is your prince charming?

  • Mary Daphne
    16 years ago

    What should you do when along the way you realized that you're falling for the wrong man, which is you bestfriend's boyfriend?

    just wanna hear your opinion.....

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    You suck it up, keep it to yourself and push it away until you find someone who isn't your best friends bf.

  • Mary Daphne
    16 years ago

    Ohw...thankx for ur advice...but ya know its kinda hard to move on when you fell badly right?

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    It doesn't matter if you are actually her friend.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Paralyzed is right.

    Friends come first- you'd be an idiot to make a move on her boyfriend. It's not that hard to get over a boy; you're young and you are going to meet a thousand more within the next few years. Considering she's your best friend, I'd be surprised if you were even thinking about doing anything other than keeping your feelings to yourself and getting over them on your own terms.

  • Mary Daphne
    16 years ago

    Aww...ur right guys..uhmm..can i call you guys? hehe...there are many fishes in the ocean...

  • Misunderstood Misery
    16 years ago

    Oooh. I've had something similar happen to me actually..

    I agree. For now you just have to suck it up. If they aren't meant to be then you will have your chance. But don't get in the way of their happiness..

    If they do break up, and you still have feelings for him, then wait awhile after they break up and then go to your friend FIRST and tell her how you feel and stuff.

    See if she's okay with it before you start making ANY moves towards him.

    That's all the advice, I can give to you. Hope it helps.

    If you need to talk or whatever, just message me anytime. (:

  • Mary Daphne
    16 years ago

    Aww...thank you...

  • Mary Daphne
    16 years ago

    But whenever love comes our way...we begin to act stupid...that's what they say!

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    I know that you can help who you like, but ur friends should always come first. and if u say its ur best friend then u would never think of trying to take something away from them that makes them happy.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Sounds like you are looking for excuses to be a bad friend to me, if that's what you want to be go for it, but 99% sure it wouldn't last if you got him.