UGh....

Sdanjms

Look, I really think you should talk to your bf. Or just break up with him because obviously you like another guy. I think that your bf has alot on his mind and if he isnt willing to open up, then there is going to be problems because you want him to open up. I'm sorry, I really am, but your attitude sounds like you could honestly care less about him.

"so when he's not caring me about me or when he's just goin through whatever he's goin through. or whatever is causing him to be rude. to me or whatever"

Call me crazy but that sounds kinda degrading to your bf. It sounds like the feeling is mutual. He doesn't care and I have a feeling you don't either. So I think you should dump him. Or talk to him and try to work it out. But it def sounds like you aren't motivated enough to do that. The other guy sounds better i'm thinking. He wants a relationship and he enjoys talking to you.
Good luck

I do care about him. thats why i'm trying to make this work &* yea i like the other guy a little, but idk if i like him for him or if i like him cause he's there for me you know. and i really wanna work things out with my boyfriend and i try to talk to him but he either doesn't wanna hear it or he's "too busy"

Well, I think that you should try one more time, and then if he doesnt cope with you, then I would break up with him. You seem like a very tolerant person because it takes one to deal with this kind of crap.

Thanksss for your advice ima use ittt.

Anytime. Good luck