Need some good advice !

Hey, i;d thought id post cos i think most of you on these forums seem to know what they talk about :] here i go.

their this girl..ive known for a while now..and we are close.. i used to like her alot..and i thought we would be together but she decided to blow me out :S and she got a boyfreind who was complete ass to her :S and treated her like shit..so they finished, but when she had this bf she never spoke to me for ages...since they finished..shes come bk..and is all really nice..and being a mug for her ..ive gotten to like her loads again :(..like i addore her and i cant look at other girls..cos i like her to much to care about others :(..it gets me down..and the worst is that ive moved away..when i finnaly thought id be with her..and i miss her so much..?..and i dunno but i get jelous..its like i cant imgane her being with some one :S..and it makes me pissed off and depressed...i try to get over her but i just cant...its so hard.. its likeshe drags me bk? am i too much of a dog to her?...thanks for reading!..appreciate your replys.

Well first off it is wrong that she completly blew you off. best thing is to talk to her about it, otherwise that feelign is going to dweell for ages. And if you truly like this girl, go be with her. BUT;; if she treats you lie a dog, move on. You don't deserve that. No one does. If you truly want to be with her, explain that your NOT her dog, and you will never be.

Well thanks for your point norwan.. ...fair enough.. thanks for your replys..id have to just go with the flow..

Girls like men are funny creatures, they don't always make their feelings clear, they make bad choices and they drive us crazy lol

You can have all the feelings you want but that doesn't mean she will return them. Don't let someone take you over like that and play with your emotions. If you have never talked to her about what's going on, you can't really know, but don't be her little boy toy she comes running to every time something or someone in her life doesn't work out because that won't feel to good either.

Yea I it was rather rude of her to blow you off and then come back when shes finished with him. I would actually take that as an insult. Thats like saying, well hes not him, but he will have to do. I don't like that. But now that you have her and you have moved away, then that presents a few more problems. I say that when you are ready, move on. How far away are you from her?