Hes starting drama and revolting against me, how do I get him to

  • MorbidCupcake
    16 years ago

    Alright so the guy that I really liked and was possibly going to go out with in a few months (when I turn 16) has pushed me away for good...I know every relationship cant last forever so Ive taught myself to forget about him and move on and its working. Im pretty proud of myself because I havent said a word to him since he said this is the end dont talk to me ever again...and hes given me plenty of oppurtunities to come crawling back. He unblocked me on AIM but I wanted to get over him not beg him to come back so I blocked him myself. Then as I finally forgot about him completely and stopped having dreams about him at night and everything he messaged me on myspace saying that hes tired of his friends telling him about my drama inducing statuses and that I needed to get over him. He said that Im creepy and clingy and he doesnt and now that Ive told the internet more than Ive told him that he doesnt have any regrets at all. And then he said that Ive changed a lot and to get out of his life. This made me extremely pissed off because I am out of his life and I hadnt talked to him since the day we broke my heart and pushed me away. He had deleted me from myspace so I couldnt reply to his message since I had to be his friend in order to do that which jus made me even madder. He told his friends that he had spying on my every move to delete me so I couldnt stalk him through their myspaces, which one listened. The spy friend that didnt delete me, I sent my reply to...I told him that I was out of his life and he should jus leave me alone and get out of mine and tht he was being immature. His friend replied back and said he wasnt spying on me and my status messages at all. So Im guessing the guy I had really really liked was lying more and more to me and now I cant get rid of him cuz Im so mad that he said those things and came back. He wants me to beg for him to come back and like me again jus so he can pretend to be the poor broken hearted one out of this. And to top it all off hes turning all his friends against me like an army. We're all in marching band (his friends and mine, him and me) and its going to be horrible once school starts again with them all hurting me with him and I didnt do anything. He got mad at me for something I never did and wouldnt listen when I said I didnt do it, he said I lied and that I always tell the internet more than him. How do I get myself out of this mess? I jus wanna get away from him and all this drama but hes never gonna let it go.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Do you tell people on the internet more about your relationship issues than you tell him? Because if you do, I can understand his point.

    Anyways. There's only one way to get out of the drama. Ignore him. It's that easy. Don't talk to him on the internet, don't answer his phone calls, and if he comes up to you in person just walk away. If he sends his friends to be "spies" or whatever, ignore them too.

    Just remember that any response you give him is encouraging the drama. Who cares what he says or thinks- just let it go and completely ignore him.