I'm so Pathetic

I went to this party the guy that I like was at. Well he tried talking to me and I was really bad at it, he would try to direct everything to me to get me to talk it seemed like, but for some reason I couldn't keep a convo going (happens a alot).

So I texted him when I got home and I was like "tonight doesn't count for us hanging out b/c I was boring :(" and he's "Haha yea you were I thought we could keep a convo going but we couldn't" So I told him how was I tired and that I felt bad and he responded "It's fine".

I am just really mad at myself b/c he even hit my leg to get my attention. Why do I choke up around guys!

Grr I'm 17 years old I need to grow up and learn to relax :(

You're not pathetic. You're just shy, that's it. You have to sometime really push the limit. Try to break that barrier you have between you and the opposite gender. This sounds like a good start for you. Just let your crush know that you're just extremely shy around guys. He'll understand the situation better and be more patient with you. Maybe even try to help you out with your problem a little. Good luck!

Yea your just shy =b and there is nothing wrong with that. i mean if he will still talk to you then your fine ^.-
oh and dont be mad with yourself cuz a lot of people have the same problem that you have guys.

hope i helped a little ^.^

Im still like that too sometimes. i get super nervous around a guy unless i know him well...i dont think its pathetic. just move on from this experience and try again next time!
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Thanks guys, I'm only this way around the guys I like or don't know.

Because my ex boyfriends friend who I'm friends with was at the party last night and he could talk to me.

I also think it's because he seemed to enjoy talking to my friend more than me.

Ah, well..
As Jeff said before, a lot of people in general have that same problem. It's not just you, it's a global thing. I'm a very outgoing person, but when it comes to a guy I REALLY like, I get tongue-tied. Sometimes even when I know them well.

So it's okay, dear. You just need to let this guy know that you're shy around people you don't know too well (lol yes, lie. I think you'd die of embarrassment if you told him it was because you like him). That way he'll understand and won't think it's just because you're boring. ^.^ Goodluck!

Sounds good I think I'm gong to apologize and be like, I can be shy around people sometimes.

Because I really can

Lol your just shy and I don't think you should have to apologize for being you. Just start up a convo. Start talking about anything. Or you could play the "questions game." lol sounds childish but it isn't. Its a game where you ask him and question, he answers it, and then you answer it, and then he asks a question. lol catch on? Not only do you get to know each other well, but it can go on for hours. Lol just a suggestion you don't have to try it. But it has worked for me many times :D

p.s.....you are NOT pathetic

Ur not pathice

Well he told my friend who was on my facebook talking to him last night (he knew it was her) that she doesn't know the person he likes... so obviously it's not me

Hey now! Don't give up! No one would ever get anywhere in life if they didn't fight for what they wanted. I say just start talking to him. And I think you need to take it to the nxt level. Or maybe i'm getting a little ahead of myself since your a little shy but girl I think its time to branch out and show him who you really are:)! Talk to him! Show him your special qualities what a great person you are and how lucky he would be to have you. I know you have it because thats the side we all see. So I think he should see it too! I wish you more than luck. If you need to talk more, my pm box is always open.

Well i can understand where u are coming from. We all fear judgement. i used to be this way where i held myself back from speaking up because i was afraid of waht people might think about me. but then i realized, what did it matter. u know. I am me and i love it.

I think the best way to put it is u can sit and be quiet throughout your whole life, and not be judged. but then nobody will have very many interesting memories of u either. u just need to crack out of ur shell and stop thinking what if so much, because at the end of the day it is u that controls ur body and mind.

peace and love

Every one has problems tlking or flirtin sometimes its not pathetic at all its life. truth is wen u really like someone it happens more often. he likes u becuz if he didnt he wouldnt have tried so hard, just take it slow he might even like it think ur hard to get! and trust me boys like that. just try to be around him wen there isnt that much pressure like doing somethin fun like bowling, or movies u will come to find wen ur comfortble and arnt pressured to tlk u listen more and then the words just flow out :)

I think of being myself when that happens, i'm me and i don't want to care if someone don't like what they see. thta's there problem darl. keep ya chin up. :D

Maybe the reason why you cant keep a conversation is because your scared of saying the wrong things to him. its normal to be shy around guys:)
hope i helped, and hope it works out between the both of you=)