Clear my mind

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Ok, i just need 2 write something down. and its to confusing to turn it into a poem but he we go....

    1. so im going out with a guy named troy and he's really sweet and caring. but all at the same time he deosnt know how to talk 2 me, like i sorta start 2 talk about something and he takes what i said then turns it into his own subject.

    2. there is a guy named riley that loves me (he told me he did) and he cant stop caring about me, i think its crazy! i dont know what the crap to do, cuz i have a boyfriend, he actually knows what i want in a relationship but we are more like brother and sister. (we even have the same birthday 4 gods sake)

    3. i think im falling for my ex reggie agian, but i cant tell what he says to me is the truth or not, or any of the seruis questions he asked me were just 4 fun (he asked if i still want him)
    but when i answered (i said half and half) he said
    that he deosnt really know if he wants me back, then i asked him if he wanted me back. he said no. but then i asked again what if i said if i did want you back, he said we wouldnt. (4get reggie, i dont like him. he sux)

    and last, there is this other guy that i liked b4, (we both liked eachother) and i think he still likes me. and i think i still like him, but i dont want 2 bear the long dis relationship anymore.

    if you guys have ANYTHING to say, please feel free to drop me a line.

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Instead of bouncing back and forth between so many guys, why not just forget all of them and figure out what you want.

    1.You obviously don't really want to be with your bf or you wouldn't be contemplating getting back with your ex or going with these other guys. Do him a favour and dump him, so he can find someone who actually wants to be with him.

    2. You said he feels more like a brother, so that doesn't sound like a bf thing to me.

    3. Your ex is your ex for a reason, the 2 of you are still playing dumb games with one another, you either want to be together or you don't.

    4. is a long distance relationship you're not really feeling.

  • Goodbye
    16 years ago

    Well... I just feel you are playing games with too many guys, no offense! To clear your mind, my suggestion is to date one guy at time. Focuss on one guy at time.

  • Daisy Wells
    16 years ago

    Hi to be honest with you i don't think any of these guys are right for you. 1. your boyfriend obviously is not pleasing you so what the point of being with him, like was said before you should forget him and let him find someone who will appreciate his quality's. 2. this other guy that loves you is more of a friendship and do you really wanna risk what u have with him already for a relationship that might not work out! 3. like said before your ex is an ex for a reason if it didnt work the first time it wont work again you'd just be going over the same ground and problems. and finally the long distance thing dosen't work belive me i have tried.
    The best thing to do is move on from all of these and meet someone new to start a fresh. hope this helps x

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Ok, you guys are right.

    and i think i just have to forget about anymore relationships with my ex's. it'll just get wierd.

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    I was in the same situation befooore.
    Now, i`m in a situation with guy#1 & guy#2

    I chose my boyfriend, of course.
    But this other guy & I still continue to flirt [he knows i gotta man]
    One day, we kissed. Just a peck.
    My boyfriend found out.
    He hung up on me ! [can`t blame him]
    soo I called him back minutes later.
    I`m the one who told him to break up with me.
    He asked why. I told him that he`s supposed to.
    He said "yeah" Then that was it.

    I was sad for the first hour.
    Then I got over it. I mean, I`m free.
    He treats [& treated] me like crap.
    Girls here, girls there.
    Lies here, lies there.
    e t c .
    *extremely complicated*
    And this is the only major thing I did in this relationship.

    The break up happened on this day of last week.
    I`m very relieved. :]
    I`m still single.
    Guy #2 & I have a lot of similarities
    but there are some stuff I don`t like about him.

    If I were you, I`d decide which one meets your standards. [CAUSE NONE OF MY MEN DID! SO NOW I CAN SPEND TIME WITH ANY OF MY SUITORS FREELY, WITHOUT WORRYING THE OTHER GUY'S FEELINGS] There are more fishes in the sea. Not to mention, the entire ocean !!! :]

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Lol

    ok thank you

  • babyPB
    16 years ago

    No prob :]
    i just hope nobody thinks ur a hoe for having all these men !
    LOL :]

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Lol :]

  • Elizabeth
    16 years ago

    She is.

  • Goodbye
    16 years ago

    I would still advise to be with one guy at the time SO you would not end up the situation like this AGAIN.

    Yes, there is plenty fish in the sea but I feel it is more lack of imagination if you would have great feeling to keep all the men around... It is only revealing you are not happy in ANY of these relationships.

    And one thing... Don't just jump from relationship to another. Have a break and clear your head. I am sure you have plenty of time to meet the right guy.

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Ya ok

    hopless romantic, ya im not a ho. just thought id like to SHARE that dit of information with you.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    I think you aren't mature enough to be dating. That's not a bad thing, most young people aren't. You just don't know what you want yet. Take some time alone to have fun and enjoy being with your friends, and don't try to grow up so fast. When you get older you will know what you want- which is clearly something you don't know right now.

  • megan
    16 years ago

    I'm sure you're sick of hearing the same thing over and over but here ya go, dump your boyfriend, it's obviously not working like you want it to. forget about your ex all together unless you guys are actually friend, cuz he's not worth it, it sounds like he just wants you to feed his ego, don't. your friend reggie? idk the one who said he loves you... tell him it's not like that for you and you'd rather stay friends than lead him on. and as far as long distance goes, unless youre crazy in love and see each other more than like once a month, dont waste your time.