I need some advice please!!!!

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    Alright i really need advice bad!!
    My boyfriend's dad found about me and him going out and i didnt know his dad would care so much ive never done nothing bad to him but his dad got on my boyfriend's myspace and he wrote this to me - party is f**king over if I CATCH YOU WITH EJ HE WILL BE SEVERELY PUNISHED AND DO NOT CALL HERE AGAIN YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED- IF YOU DO CALL MY PRIVATE PHONES I WILL CALL THE SHERIFF! Im really worryed about my boyfriend he called me and he was crying and stuff and i dotn know what to do i think his dad hits him but we love eachother and we have knowen eachother seen the 4 th grade and i have never done anything for his dad to hate me and i thought his dad knew me and Ej were going out but i guess he didnt we are both 16, but anyways do i just stop talking to him?? i miss him so much and im very worryed i dont know what to do ? im so sorry if this does not make sense .. thank you for your time -

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    GO TO HIS HOUSE AND TALK TO HIS DAD. or ask Ej if he deos get beaten. and if so TELL SOMEONE. his father is clearly a meanie, he deosnt really know you at all, so what charges can he do to you? if you bf, has your back when you go to his house then nothing horrible can happen.

    but i really do think that his dad needs to be talked to. weather its you, your bf, or someone else (if he hits his son)

    i hope that helped. if it didnt just pm me i find something for you

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    I went to his house and his sister told me i cant be there and shut the door in my face, my boyfriend wont tell me if his dad hits him everytime i ask him he dont ever answer me. I havent talked to him and im kinda worryied cos the last time i did get to talk on the phone he was crying and everything.

    I havent done nothing to his family and me and ej have never done anything bad and my mother has even met him and anytime i hang out with him my mom or sister is with us he is a good kid and i cant see why his dad and sister dont like me.. My mom said she would go over to his house with me but im just not sure.. :( thank you soo much for replying it really means alot to me you dont know how much again thank you .

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    He is 16 the same age as me.
    He is a really good kid and stuff
    it's just his dad and sister hate me
    and i dont know why, i guess he is
    not alowed to date and than his found
    out his has a girlfriend me..

    I just dont know ... :/

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    Your right i guess i just let it go.
    thank you-

  • megan
    16 years ago

    Ok wow... most people who get abused don't say so... who doesn't know that. and secondly if his dad does hit, which we don't know, going over there will only make it worse. and if hes not 18... he doesn't get to make his own rules, at all.if you two like each other that much you'll find a way to make it work. in secret, NOT getting him in trouble, there isn't a whole lot he can do to you but he can make his life hell, anything else just pm me

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    Me and him hasnt talked and stuff so i dont know what the heck is going on or anything, i just hope he is alright and everything... i really dont know what else to do i cant call him i cant go over there his myspace is closed he wont e-mail me back ugh i dont know i wanna know he is okay .. :(

  • Lov3 the Lord your God
    16 years ago

    Maybe he is going through a hard time you know. Just chill out. Try and be there for him but you can't help him if he doesn't want to be helped. If his father is beating him you should tell the police or someone you know. He probably won't like you for it now but in the long run he'll probably have a better life. Do what you think you should do to help him. Don't think about you and him though if its meant to happen it will if not then let it go. There is more to life than guys. (no offense)

  • ViolentlyDisturbed
    16 years ago

    Oh yes of course im just worryed about him kinda i have just been friends with him so long and now this i just wanna know if he is alright and if there is anything he needs or stuff i can do that for him but as far as worrying about him and me dating i know its over and its alright but now i just would like to know if my friend is ok and stuff..

    thank you very much for your time and writing me back your very kind all of you are i really do thank you..