What do i do

Im hurting really bad....i opened up to my boyfriend let all my walls come down....we have been dating for 6 months....and yesterday he told me he didnt love me anymore and i asked when did he find this out...and he said 3days ago...andhe was still with me telling me he loved me....but now im hurt....he was my first real boyfriend....when i said i love you to him...i meant it....and he was my first kiss too...i dont know what to do....im hurting so much...

Hey... I wish i could take the pain of it away...tell you its a dream..or erase the memories but i cant. Ive been there done that..twice. It hurts, bad. But you cant do anything about it anymore..all you can do is try to remember that everything happens for a reason and you cant just stop life ther.
The way he said he stopped loving you but stil told you he did, hurts like none other i know, but then you think about it, and if its honest love, you dont just stop for nothing.
I dont even know if im helping. I might be making it worse. But.. all i can say is..
Everything Happens For a Reason.

hope everything works out in the end,
kaitlyn.

Ugh men. They just don't get it do they? I'm really sorry that had to happen to you. I agree with Kaitlyn. You don't wake up one morning and say "I don't love her anymore."

Or at least I don't think so. But I do know one thing; he told you that for a reason, whether it was a good one or not. He said it.

So what now? I say move on. He is obviously a jerk who doesn't appreciate you. Find someone who does. I know you care for him and know it will be hard just to drop him out of your life but when he puts you in this situation, you don't really have a choice. You have to force him out. He doesn't deserve you if hes going to be like that. Really. He doesn't.

Good luck and feel free to pm me anytime

This may be just an opinion but to me..love doesnt come in past tense. You will either always love someone or you never did. From the sounds of it, he will probably be begging you to take him back telling you he just needed time to think and he made a dumb mistake. If it was me, I wouldnt take him back. If he can't decide how he feels about you I dont think he deserves you.
Best Wishes.

Stop loving....what is that? I am not sure if there is such a thing called "stop loving" but so far I have understood. It doesn't happen in a minute. Actually people told me it happens slowly in long period of time... So slowly it is hard to notice when it begin or name reason why you "stop loving".

Somehow I think there is nothing like stop loving someone. If this love is really true you simply can't no matter what the person does to you. I think there is a reason behind why people break up. They were not meant to be together. There was no such thing as REAL love.

I value high word "Love". I can honestly admit I did not love the man I married. Maybe we can say I liked him. I had a crush on him but it was everything BUT love. Real love is not like that (for me).

I have had to meet many people in my tired life to understand the difference between Love and Something Else Than Love. I think it is confusing to understand the difference.

Some of my friends have told me they were with someone they did not really love. I asked the reason and they said they felt good the other person loved them (I still doubt was it Real Love). People are like this.

Obviously your ex have thinking about his feelings to you. And for my experience I can say this sentence "I don't love you anymore" does not come easily out of mouth.

Of course you feel hurt. You were the more active person in this relationship. You cared about him. But it did not work out.

At least this guy respected you because he told you now. Sometimes when people are dishonest the other people will discover the truth in the cruelest way. They found their partner for cheating.

I think it was good for you to have those memories you had together. Keep them. Something to remember.

Move on, girl. Don't look back. Don't take him back even if he beg you. When times goes by you will understand it was a good decision.

All the best.

-Noor-

I wish I could help but I just want you to know that you're not the only one. I told my ex I loved him and he never responded after we broke up he told me it scared him. It hurt so bad he was my first love and my most serious relationship.

Yes...i hate having this feeling.....ever since we broke up....i havent been myself...i dont eat...much....or sleep....i dread waking up in the mornings

I disagree with most of the people on here. The degree of love you feel with someone when you are 15 *can* just go away. I understand that it's a nice ideal to say that real love never ends, or whatever, but it's not logical. Especially when you're young. Plus, maybe something did happen with him that made him realize he didn't have the same feelings for her anymore- you can't just assume that he's the jerk.

Original poster: I think you should just appreciate the fact that he was honest and didn't drag out a relationship that he just wasn't feeling anymore. It takes time to get over someone, and I wish you the best of luck. Concentrate on your friends for a while and you'll feel better before too long. There are plenty more boys coming your way. Take care.

Thank you....eveyone....who has helped me....i feel better now...and is willing to let go of him