My parents ignore me because theyre so in love...help?

My parents are always there for eachother no matter what but tell them they wont revolve their life around mine becuz its too much. If they fight over anything no matter how little or big it is they blame me and get mad at me for making them fight. Theyre so in love sometimes they dont even notice im there....like if i try talking to them while theyre together they ignore me. I feel so alone somtimes i cant stand it. As much as I know its wrong sometimes I feel like I want them to hate eachother jus becuz I want them to be there for me like everyone elses parents are. My dad never talks to me or even looks at me unless my mom wants him to, its like my mom is all he cares about and im jus an iterruption on their life. Theyve even told me to my face that they should never have had me....why do i do to make them love me like they should?

Unfortunately you can't make them love you like a parent should love a child. The fact that they have said they should not have had you is disgusting, especially since they said it to you and act that way. Me personally I would probably be spiteful, do my best to make the life I want and make them proud so I could cut them out of it, they always say the best revenge is living well.

I have to agree ^ My patents have told me the same thing before. however they are no where in love. they divocred 10 years after they wed. revenge is the way to go. live your life to the fullest. gtaduate from school. find true love. marry them. and dont invite your parents. you should be able to have sucess without the people who told you you shouldnt even be walking this earth. prove them wrong. to me thats what lifes all about

Best of luck to you deary<3

From the tittle I thought, well get over it, it's so sweet to have parents who love each other even after years of marriage.
but then when I read it I understood, but it's not because they love each other, it's because of something else, cuz hun you are a creation of their love and if they love each other they will love you and care for you. I don't think they hate you or do what they do because they are too in love to realise your presence it's because parents are sometimes so afraid or love you too much that they feel they don't have to express it.
Tell your parents how you feel, get close to them even if you feel it's hard. Show your love to them even if they don't show their love to you.

^^ Parents who love and appreciate their children don't go out of their way to make the child feel unwanted and say such disgusting things. I have to agree with the first 2 posters, Live well and lose them when you can, maybe they'll see when important moments start popping up in your life and they are not involved that they were wrong and the behavior is just plain wrong.

We all need a family. And when parents, say things like that. Yeah, thats just ridiculous. But, as hard as it sounds. You just need to hang on and love them with everything you've got. I'll pray for you, that God will open your parents eyes, to see the beautiful creation, they made through God's blessings.
Because there is nothing more important than loving the family you have. They need to realize, and I'm sure that they will someday. That they need you, and you need them. And that is what family is all about.