MAJOR ADVICE NEEDED!

Ok so last month on June 30th i left for boot camp for the Navy. The month before i left me and my (ex) were on somewhat bad terms because i found texts in his phone from this girl(peaches) whom i used to cool with two years ago becuase she grew up with my best friend and i would soon find out she also grew up with my (ex). I broke up with him the day i seen the texts but it was like we were still goin out but without the title because we were doing everything we did when we were together. But one week it was like i didnt want anything to do with him (idk we got into a big fight) but i went to a party at one of my friends guys' house that i never met before. Me and this guy Kyle started talking and after about a week we ended up kissing..ok making out..and then the next day was my ex's birthday and i went over to his house and he found out about it...we got into a big fight and he basically cried and then after that he was bringing me flowers at 8 in the morning and just be a sweetheart saying that he wanted me back and that i had to choose between him and kyle and if i choose kyle that he would never speak to me again and if i choose my ex then i would never be able to speak to kyle, now my ex didnt know this but me and kyle had already agreed to be friends for his childs sake but i told dominic that i wouldnt choose because i still wanted kyle as a friend...but he stayed in my life and the days before i left we were great except i was still seeing texts from peaches in his phone asking him to hang out and what not and he assured me that there was nothing for me to worry about and the day i left i had him text her and tell her that he didnt want nothing to do with her and she called and left a voicemail of her crying and stuff and i didnt really think anything of it. Now i got seperated from the Navy (by choice) and when i got a phone call he was the first one i called and when i told him i was coming home he decided to tell me that he has been dating peaches since June 9th..note i left on the 30th...so i guess he was only dating her because he didnt think it was going to work out with me in the milatary for 4 years so he just started moving on sooner then later i guess...um so when i was there at boot camp i got to make a phone every few days and i called him everytime becuase there were so many questions i wanted to ask him. He would tell me that he didnt really think it was going to last very long with her, that he misses me and my lips (inside joke), that he compares her to me, and he still said i love you when we hung up the phone every time. Now i wrote her on myspace and told her that the whole first month that they were going out he was still sleeping with me and seeing me everyday, but i guess she doesnt believe me so ill let her think what she wants, but when i come back his best friend who is my best friends boyfiend is telling me that he doesnt want me to come in between him and peaches because he is happy right now...so what am i supposed to do...i tried to talk to another guy and i just cant do it...i feel a lump in my throat everytime im on the phone with someone other then him, i feel so empty and if he wants nothing to do with me then why is he still telling me these things....?

He's still telling you these things because he thinks he can get away with having everything. But he's disrespecting you by lying to you about this girl, and he's really disrespecting her by continuing to fool around with you when he's in this other relationship. He's not worth your time or energy. I'd stay away, if I were you.

He tells you to choose between your friend and him, yet he is going out with someone else? You can message her and say anything you want, what I don't understand is why you want him and why you endure these childish games. Don't you want someone who is going to love you and respect you no matter what hardships you are facing in your relationship?

Bottom line is he wants the best of both worlds. he thinks he can string you both along and why does he do it? becuase you both let him! find someone who treats you with respect and loves you, someone who will not fool around with childish games, your better then this guy, its hard to move on but you can do it. forget this joker!

Wow ok. Obviously this guy has nooo respect. Hes pretty much telling two girls he loves them. I should hope that everyone on here agrees that is not right. Move on, get some other guy who will respect you. Because that guy is turning you into a doormat. He sounds very immature. I say just leave him to his flippin girlfriend "peaches" or whatever her name is. You deserve waaaay better.

Yea i understand what you all are saying its just so hard to let someone out of your life when they know everything about you and he is tellng me that he still wants to be friends with me and everything and i also want to be friends because he is such a good listener but its gonna be so hard because i cant bare to see him with her and i can tell that he doesnt want to see me with other guys either but he and i keep talkin once in awhile and he still says he misses things about me and he says that she cant replace me and oh my god...its soo much going on because i also heard that he was trying to talk to my friend ashley h. and he met her at my going away party so that would be really messed up but i dont know if its true....i know i shouldnt but i really do miss him and everything that we had...i still love him and i cant help it!

Wow that was alot to take in but honestly from what i grasp with all this it seems to me like he is afraid to admit how much you mean to him and so instead of having you and losing you because you're gone he'd rather avaoid a relationship. At the same time though he doesnt want someone else to have you so he tells you what you mean to him so you wont move on. I mat be completely off but ive had one like yours and thats what it turned out to be. good luck i hope you figure it all out.

OK..so i basically distanced myself from him for about a week and we didnt talk at all and at first it was hard but then i met someone and i just started hanging out with him but thats a different story...anyways., Dominic bought my brothers car but it had to get its breaks fixed but i guess dominic didnt fix them right away becuause the car stayed parked in front of his house for awhile so they sent a parking ticket to my brother and my dad told me to take it to dominic to get it fixed so i did. When i got there i just planned on handing him the ticket and walking away but it didnt work that way. As i started walking away he started talking to me and he ended up flirting really bad and he asked for a hug and he didnt want to let go. He also somehow found out about this new guy that im talking to which is damn near impossiable because we just starting hanging out and then he came 2inches close to my face and even turned his head with the intensions on kissing me and then i was like dominic what are you doing and he just said Oh im just playing with you. He was also only wearing pajama pants with nothing under and i noticed and said "well looks like you were bout to get in the shower im going to leave" and he was just like "you could come with aint nobody home". Thats when i looked at him stupid and he was like " Im just messing with you but you know you would take that oppertunity to break up me and peaches" and i said " no i wouldnt you happy with her why am i gonna try to ruin your happiness?" And he said "well you know i still do get those urges because you were the best i ever had..." Then we were just talking for a few more minutes and i said i had to leave and he asked for hug and when i did and then started walking away he took another hug from behind me and i pushed him off and accidently scratched his cheast. Then After not texting for a week, he texted me ten minutes after i left and said that i left a mark on his chest and then he just started talking to me and when i asked him why he got so close to kissing me all he said was that he was just joking...how do i deal with all this?