FINALLY

Thursday after school my friend and I went golfing with two of our guy friends Ben and Brad before they leave for college.. well they both are actually my ex boyfriends best friends. So after golfing we went on a picnic and drove around and went back to Ben's to watch the olympics. And my ex called Brad to see what he was doing and he said how he was with us and he could come over if he wanted. He said he was going to hang out w/ another group of guys and they weren't coming over. So about an hr later here comes all the boys down the steps! I was like what the heck! My ex was on of them and he acted the same. He was nice to me and everything.

I wanted to see him so bad before he left to see how he acted around me. And becuase I wanted to hang w/ him one last time!

I miss him now, I want to work things out but I know he leaves soon.

Earlier Brad and I were looking at facebook on my name and he went to look at Danny's and he's like did you delete him.. and I said no he's under Daniel on here. And I'm like why would I, I don't hate him he hates me. And he's like Brittany he doesn't hate you he talked to me about it. He feels bad because you choose to talk to him at the wrong times like when he's going out for chores!

I'm so confused I don't know what to think anymore

Do you have any idea how many posts there are about missing an ex on this site? Soooo many! Trust me when I say you are not alone. He is an ex for reason. Don't go back to him.

It doesn't mean anything? With all do respect, I disagree. Why did they break up? I don't know. But for whatever reason, something happened that they found they could not work out.

We broke up because he didn't like me like he used to and things changed between us. We're trying to be friends I hope

I hope things get better.

It just seems like it's awkward between you, not uncommon since you broke up lol But if you want to be friends, be casual, don't obsess or freak out or over complicate it. If you call at a bad time, tell him to call you back when he gets a chance or ask him for a time to call. If he is down with it write to him while he is away at school.

Yes Fallen Princess, I get that. But I do believe you are having guy issues right now also. Is it with your ex? And if its not, that must mean you guys are not together anymore. So I wouldn't say things worked out better the second time. I don't know, maybe I have no idea what I'm saying. But in my experience, going back to an ex is not a good way to go.

Ok, Fallen Princess. I just read your other post. And I just caught myself wrong. lol you are having totally and completley different problems then what I thought it was. lol it appears I have no idea what I am talking about. I send out my apologies.

Yea I'm going to try to keep in touch w/ him @ school.. and we usually talk on Facebook.. hopefully when he's away he'll learn I just want it to be like b4 we went out.

I will side with Loni here with the idea that he is an ex for a reason. There has to be something that made the two of you split paths, otherwise, you'd still be together.

At this point, I really doubt he should be trifling with a relationship seeing as how he is going off for college. He needs to keep his mind focused on school if he wants to do well and come out of that with a diploma in hand. I personally decided to stay away from relationships while in school and it did well for me to do so because I got my degree and then ended up with a great guy.

Try to keep it at a level of friendly interaction and try to be friends with him. Don't try to make any moves toward rekindling the relationship, because that could potentially blow up in your face and make it so there will never be another chance of a relationship with him. If you're meant to be, it will be.

Trust me though.. you're not the only one who misses their ex. Let time and fate do their work.