Personality and looks...

I fall for guys that I dont find attractive but since they have such good personalities to me it makes them attractive. Now I think Im falling for someone jus for personality but I dont think his personality makes him attractive..if tht makes sense. Is tht possible and as shallow as it sounds?

The guy i like now i wouln't consider hot or anything like that. but he's a lot like me, he's cute. i don't like hot guys unless they have the personality to back it up fully, and i'm not just saying that.

Yeah i also agree with that...i dont rule anyone out because of looks TOO much...but i mean we all tend to do it...guilty as charged...i look more into someone's personality rather than how they look...if they win over my heart...im sold!!! ;D

Don t fall for looks because they fade away, fall for souls because they stay forever, remember that looks can decieve, I know it is sometimes hard but if the guy s personality is good I see no reason to turn him down, looks are not everything in this life the most important thing is love so you have to choose.

I guess the only difference I see there for you is that the guys you fell for that you ended up finding attractive, you fell for, while right now you THiNK you're FALLiNG. It's still in action... It's still going, so maybe later you'll find him attractive too, but it's not really shallow actually, because as far as your post goes--you haven't said that you don't want to be with him just because he isn't "becoming" attractive. You just don't see how it makes any sense.

Everyone that knows me considers me shallow: I'll love a guy's personality, but if they're not just slightly over average, I won't want to date them. For me, it's just because I can't imagine and don't want to imagine myself having my face or body anywhere near theirs... and what kind of relationship would that be? If I'd be repulsed by the thought of being in their arms or having my face close to theirs? That's shallow :) To me, anyway.

NO its not shallow at all. i'm the same way. Personalities then looks actually its eyes then personalities but anyhow. If you all notice the idea of dating a guy with a nice personality and not so great looks is a comfort zone to us girls. Its our way of cheating our hearts an dminds and not saying. "the reason i don't like Hott guys is because i feel maybe i'm not goodenough for them" we don't want to believe that no one wants to belive that. I mean i my school i don't even know the hott guys at my school but i belive they are small minded and they are just jerks but thats only because i don't want to think maybe i'm not goodenough for them. For the first time i talked to a guy who was this big hottie but to me he wasnt i thought he was prob a jerk but he is a sweetheart and crazy funny. and i don't think i'm not goodenough for him because i got to know him. But no hun your not shallow you just might not of opened up more to see his true beuty

It's ok me too i'm inlove with this guy then when my friends found out about that it's him they started to ask me...."hey he's not even that handsome"well i say NEVR JUDGE ANYONE OR ANYTHING BY LOOKS" it's like "DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER" hahahaha hope this could you hehe that's all goodbye....

I don't think you are sounding shallow at all actually. That just means that you are a little turned off by his personality. Which usually means keep looking.

Sometimes what happens with me and when I'm not too impressed with a guys personality, I focus on his looks that keep reminding me how handsome he is, which I shouldn't. Its becoming less of a habbit now that I'm older and I see what kind of jerks are out there. But I say that personality is EVERYTHING. Looks only go so far in life.