Love sparks

Ok so everyone knows that sometimes if your lucky you can feel this love spark between you and another person. And when this spark dies...is it completely gone or can it come back somehow.
I just lost the spark with my bestfriend who i kinda grew attacted to. I mean we had this huge love spark and everyone saw it and then a year later it just died out. is it seriouly gone?

-Kiss of the wind

Maybe it's just a rough patch or maybe you have just grown apart, only you and time can say for sure.

The sparks love can return to your relationship with your friend, perhaps you are just bored or tired,
may be both of you need some rest, take time and remember that in changing we find purpose, I hope that you didn t do any harm to each other during this delicate period because if you did things won t be as before you will feel a rift between you.

No i havent done anything wrong i just kinda gav eus both space but he does this weird thing now that when we are alone we kinda hang out and never really do anything but when it us and more people he tends to get annoying on purpose and gets mor phyiscal with me like throughing his arm around me and cuddling but only when people are around. what does that mean?

I think he still doesn't know what he really wants, he is a little bit confused, he wants to give a certain image of him to other people, please give more details so as I can figure out what's really with him.

Well we have been bestfriends for the last year and when we first hung out i never really liked him but here and there i'd hold his hand. he never pulled his hand away or said anything about it. so i guess at my 16th birthday party everything started to change we both got more physical like more tickling and tackling eachother and we would have thi fight on my couch where i'd steal his celephone and he pretty much find the weirdst ways to get his cell like stradling me or wrapping his arms around me. welll after 3 months of this i thought maybe its enough if he says he doesnt want me then why fool around like this. so i told him we should both stop and we did. we hung out less and time for time he'd throw his arm around me, get really close to my face then walk away but nothing serious

UNTIL it was me and him hanging with another friend then he'd just annoy me to death. just bug me and poke me, wrap his arms around me. like a week ago he was poking me with his elbow and i was freaking out it hurt! so out of no where wraps his arms around me and lays my head on his shoulder. well duh i calmed down. i love cuddling with him but then i was like wait hey! you cant do that. he just laughed at me. HE just knows what to do to get me to like swoon over him sometimes. And my neck is very sesnitive and well he'll blow on it trying to get me i guess extra happy but it never works. but he still trys it. its weird i mean i just want some kinda of i idea. i don't want to speak up with out knowing what he is really feeling. other then no i don't like her. thats all he says but it just be that. you don't treat the person you don't like, like that....do you?

Well, I think he has some feelings towards you he both wants you and not, so I advise you to not be weak with him, he seems to me a bit mysterious, it s clear that he has some secrets that he is afraid of,
the proof of that is his annoyance when you``steal``his cellphone.

I say give it time and more time.

I say you ask asbout it... cuz no, thats not what u act like with ppl you dont like

I've brought it up many times but we really never talked talked about it. He is one of those guys who doesnt show real emotion. He cried once in front of me but ever since then its been kinda straight forward moods i guess.

I stick with what I said. lol

I think he liked you a lot at first, but when you told him to stop he maybe got hurt? So now he just really playful, maybe he wants to see if he has an effect on you. Has he come out an told you that he just want to be friends? Or have you two actually talked about dating?

^True

Well as any other girl has done. my friends have asked him and he has always no now just as a friend. I always wanted to talk to him about it but i didnt think i needed to or had to. when i kinda get on teh subject he never really says anything he just kinda sit there so i never keep talking about the real subject

Well if you really want to be with him, you need to bring it up. You should tell him exactly what your side is, if your sorry for hurting him, or how he makes you feel. In the end if he says no, its his loss and move on. Its better to know and tell the truth instead of waiting for someone who will just waste your time.

The only thing i can say is sometimes after you've been with someone a long time or even just known them the spark could maybe dim a bit but that doesn't mean its gone. I have been with my bf for 3 years and there's always a spark but sometimes the spark seems gone. I think he likes you alot.

The thing is, you have to ask yourself.

Can you live without this person?
Can you see your future without this person?

Maybe this was meant to be.
Just try to be positive and remember the good times and realize that everything good must fall... and that sometimes it just doesn't get back up.

I wish you the best, sweetheart.

^Agreed. Whatever happens, happens because it was meant to happen that way. You wait and see!