Urgent need for help....

I ve fallen in love at first sight since the previous
February I m head over heels for this guy but the problem he didn t take the first step, we have never talked but I think he feels the same way the problem is that I miss him so much (we are on holiday) and I don t want to lose him especially that he will graduate this year and if I do nothing I will never see him.
my biggest problem is that I am exaggerately proud so I can t do the first step.

Thank you for the trouble you ve taken to answer me, I m really grateful.
in fact you are completely right I don t want to lose him but he seems so shy all what I ve done is to follow him every where so like an F.B.I agent:)I know it s so stupid but I can t help it, I need to use my imagination but it s so difficult to put it into action.

Dont wait for him to make the first step he might not and then youll be wasting a good oportunity as you watch him graduate and leave forever.
if you really fell in love at first sight then you would do what ever it takes to make him yours, first step included.

I was in the same position! And i left me number for him. =] unfortunately it didnt work out for us, but hey, we're friends now, so what does it matter! =]

Just try, and it could be quite rewarding :)

Good Luck! =]

xx

Hmmm...take the first step but dont show him that u took the first step!!

like...mmm...maybe when he's in a group or sth say hi to all including him(maybe with a smile)...(that's a big step in my own opinion but u didnt show anthin)

if u know wat i mean :/

Show him that you like him,,,,but never tell him. He may be turned off. You know what I mean.... Ofcourse, guys always have to do the first step! but according to my teacher a guy will never make a move without having a clue that the girl like him,,,,so show him....probably by flirting! he he he

Wow... where is there a rule book saying guys have to make the first move? if you want it to happen that bad, suck it up. If he leaves and you didn't do anything about it, your what if's and if only's will not change a thing. I mean I'm a little "old fashioned" i guess, in that i would hope for it to be the guys to make the move but really, if there are time limitations... move it or lose it.

Yes you are completely right I'll try to get close to his friend and therefore close to him but I know it won't be easy at all!!!he is a kind of a shy person he is always alone he doesn't have lots of friend;he is so serious I mean I guess he only cares about studies!!and for me I'm also shy and I have a strong sense of proud!!and that makes thing more complicated.

Thank you for your help it's really very kind of you!
yes you are completely right I must do something I have no other choice.