Break up + time to think

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Why do girls break-up and then when we beg them to come back, they say give us time to think. dont call or anything???

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    You're probably annoying her to be honest. Let her have time to clear her head. Whether she decides to come back or not, at least give her that respect.

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Okay guys! i agree with all of you, but are you telling me no 1 has ever made a mistake by begging their girl to come back to them?

    now she asked for 7 more days to think ... coz i didnt give her the time then... so far i didnt call her yet...

    and i think now im doing everything right! and last night she atcually took the time to listen to me, and know how im going to fix everything...

    so ya... im sure alot of people begged their girl once or twice to come back to them... im sure im not the only one... thats why i posted on this furum... to try to get advice, to know how i can fix things up

  • Mimi Angel
    16 years ago

    There is always a reason to break-up, your girl needs to reconsider her decision, she was able to say no, but she prefers to think it over that proves she has some feeling for you.
    take it slow she needs time and I'm sure everything will be back to normal .
    good luck.

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Robie! For the last time! You did nothing! If anything, its no ones fault. Her fathers decision has nothing to do with anything you've done. Stop blaming yourself and just wait for her. lol

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Ya now i didn't call her, she told me to call her on Saturday 6 of September , and she will give me an answer!!! I don't even know what to expect.... Is there a chance she would say no to the relationship??? I'm lost

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    I completley agree with Amanda. She is playing games with you and you need to tell her that. You may love her, but you need to speak your mind. You need to tell her that you aren't playing games.

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    4 more days to go, i cant wait...
    somehow i dont even know what to expect, but im ready to take it all in...

    a big part of me, is hoping she would say yes...
    and another part of me, is asking, what if she says no...

    but oh well... what can i do...
    i will wait and see... i didnt call her since friday...
    so i guess she has enough time to think...

    4 more days to saturday!

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    If she tells you that she needs more time, she is toying with you and there is no way you should let her get away with it. I don't like what she has done already but I don't know, maybe that's just me.

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Im not going to accept the fact if she says she needs more time...!!! i would tell her straight...

    just say it... !!! Yes or No

  • Karl Wild GG23
    16 years ago

    Honestly, you don't need to be listening to anybody on here who is telling you to just give up and let her go. Don't give up just give her some time to think about what she wants to do. None of us know what you did to make her want this break, and none of us know how in love you two are. So the only real advice is to just let her have some time because thats what she wants, if you truly love her and care about her then you'll stay away for a week. To be honest it sounds like you need a little bit of time to think yourself, don't let go, but don't hold on so tight either.

  • Karl Wild GG23
    16 years ago

    You're right we're all intitled to our opinions and I stated mine in the way it was meant to be stated. I did not disrespect him or anybody who posted, I simply said not to listen to us, but to follow his heart in the matter for he knows the relationship better than we do, doesn't he?

  • Karl Wild GG23
    16 years ago

    Exactly, so if he didn't or doesn't want our opinions then he shouldn't be on here asking for them. I know what I said definately won't affend him, so it shouldn't have had you so upset about it.

  • Karl Wild GG23
    16 years ago

    ^^ I do agree that he shouldn't allow her to dictate the relationship, but at the same time if she's asking for time and he's not giving her the space she needs to think than it's just delaying the process. If she doesn't want to talk right now then give her a reasonable amount of time to think, and if she doesn't want to talk after that then let her come back to you.

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Hey guys!
    all this argument didnt need to happen!
    umm... i wanted to say...

    that yesterday i called her from a payphone, and once she said "hello" i played the song for :

    Savege Garden - I knew i loved you

    and she didnt hang up the phone! which for me is a good sign,... she hung up the phone, when the song was on the 3rd chorus... or something like that...

    and well... i will give her the time she wants, but thats till saturday, which is in 2 days...

    umm... im sure she will give me an answer...

    i guess the reason why she asked for the 7 days, was because when she asked for 2 days to think about stuff... i didnt stop calling in this 2 days, i called her , and tried talking to her... so i guess that just made things worse...

    and made her delay her thinking for 7 more days... and she told me not to call her at all in this 7 days... but yesterday i had enough i just wanted her to listen to that song, because it was the same song i dedicated to her when we first started going out! i just hope that works... and she comes back on saturday!

    thank for everyone's advice, it really helped me alot this week!!!

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    I disagree with you Karl. He shouldn't listen to any of us?? Sure we should just let this chick play games with this guy who personally asked us all for help. So we gave him advice...quite excellent advice that will help him from getting his heart completley crushed. Robie PMed me all about this girl and what happened. He did nothing wrong. Her father is having issues and Ryea can't make up her mind "apparently." I stand by what I said Robie. She is playing immature games that need to end in 4 days.

  • Karl Wild GG23
    16 years ago

    You have your right to disagree with me, but if you read what I said about Robie not giving her the space and time that she asked for was only making things worse and delaying the process. You'll in fact see that she told him herself that since he kept calling and asking questions she would push the amount of time back. Like I said delaying the process. Thanks

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    I do agree with you there Karl. We have all told him to stop calling her.

    Robie, it doesn't matter if you called her on a different phone and put the song on. The point is, you called her, and you disobeyed her request. Don't call her! She has asked you many times Robie. We all say this because we are trying to help you get your girl back.

    DO NOT CALL HER.

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Well if she broke up with you then she needs the time to think. I thought that was obvious.

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    Hey guys, you all helped me out through out this week, and yeah i stoped calling her ... i cant wait for 2moro... its the day!!! im ready to take anything, yes or no...

  • Robie Lincer
    16 years ago

    She said , she cant be with me anymore!
    she made it clear now that it was no...
    so ya... thanks guys for everything... means alot to me...

    just wanted all of you to know

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Oh Robie. I am so sorry. PM me.