I Fell For it Again.

This guy who I've liked since 7th grade (im a senior now) told me last year that he liked me too, and we dated for a while, but we had to break up because he said he was moving to Texas. at the end of the summer though, he was still here and still in the same house. when i asked him about it, he said that he "had to move, but it didnt work out so they came back." he told my sister he was gonna ask me back out, but then told my best friend that he wasn't because he didn't want to hurt me again.

Last night was our first football game (he's drumline, I'm colorguard) and he sat next to this clarinet player who I know. I'd been hearing rumors that they liked each other and that he was trying to ask her out, but i didn't believe them because he was still acting like he liked me. After the game though, they were holding hands and were all over each other the whole way back to the school.

Now I have to see them at school every day and at practice every day knowing that he lied to me and that he never told me the truth about anything. I want to confront him about it but I don't know what I would say to him. It's not the girl's fault, I already know that he's the one acting like a jerk. Is there anything I can do to try to move on a little faster?

Don't confront him. The only way to move on is to forget about it. It sounds a lot easier than it is, but starting an arguement will only make you feel worse. Try to keep yourself focussed on other things, and don't even give a second glance when you see the two of them together. You know that you're better off without him, so let him do what he wants. Good luck.

I think he doesn't deserve you, he doesn't know what he wants exactly from you, maybe he was just attracted to you then he decided to move on.
in my way of thinking he doesn't want to tie himself to you. he still wants to take some good time and plays around.
if I were you I'd better forget about him and start anew with a guy that really loves me .
I know at the beginning you'll be hurt but you'll start on a solid ground.
good luck.

I agree with these two. He doesn't deserve you. Move on. It is more than for the best. What a jerk. Don't you just hate guys like that?

Yea... I don't see any point in feeling bad, it's his loss. But it's gonna take me a while to get over him. I don't even know how to start...

You are right, you must get it behind you, start by doing other things for instance get out with your friends, why not making new friends, find other hobbies, and try to drop this matter from your head.

If you need any help don't hesitate for an instant; I was in the same situation but I'm over with it now
you know it's a matter of time and patience,
at this stage you want to talk n talk about the matter without any restriction then bit by bit you'll feel it like a heavy burden to you.
xxxx

I found out today that they're not going out... She came on to him and instead of ignoring it, he went with his hormones and flirted back. so they're not dating... they're just... i dont really wanna know what they're just.

I tried asking him about today, but I still like the stupid jerk. It's hard to be mad at him when he's not there, but as soon as he disappears it all comes back...

I'm sorry. I don't agree with not important. With all do respect of course:) He doesn't deserve to be confronted in my opinion. I do agree that he need to know. But he will find out on his own. He will realize it in time. When you confront someone, that means you care. He is happy that you care and all that will do is keep his pride going. When you completley ignore him and show him that he didn't break you and he's not all that, that shows him hes not all that.

I think it is best to move on. He will learn that he is a dick. He is his own problem....not yours. The last thing you need is to worry about telling him off. I think telling him off will only make him even more satisfied. What will that do? It will only make you care even more. I say walk away from him. He doesn't deserve your time of the day to be dealing with his b.s.

Okay, obviously as everyone has stated you should kick him to the curb. its over and done with. let it go. if you'd like to confront him, then do it. yell, scream, shout, cry, do whatever it takes to make you feel better. then move on. if he wanted to be with you, he would have come back and not been all over some other girl knowing you were there. thats all there is to it.