My Abusive Father

I'm sooooo sorry that you have to go through this every day...If you ever want to talk im here feel free to e-mail me
Ktsmalls21389@yahoo.com

xX-Katherine-Xx

hey, i no wot ur going through. my father raped me and came in my room to touch me each night for 9 years (scinse i was 6!) and my mum and dad beat me all the time, thumping me and hitting me wiv belts and shoes and scalding, strangling and pushing me, he even held me over a bridge once! it's only recently ive spoken up, i told a teacher and my soial worker and i didnt go home that night i went in to foster care, and im still not over it, ive tried to commit suicide 5 time and i cut and burn myself all the time, but its better than being at home, and im getting help, if u wanna talk to me talk sum time but i no wot its like and i sympathize but ya need to speak up to sum 1!!!! take care sweetie!!!

Hailie this man is not your father, he may be biologically but it takes alot more than sperm to call yourself a Dad okay? Firstly what he is doing is wrong okay hun and not you nor your siblings deserve to be treated like this...its not right and its not the sort of example he should be setting for you to continue when you raise your own families one day (Hence the psychological childhood abuse/violence cycle).

Alot of readers are probably gunna jump on me here and thats fine I accept that for what I am about to advise Hailie to do, because on a serious note I dont believe anyone of any age or other matter should have to live like this everyday and Hailie I have a few suggestions for you...

1) Tell your mother, she has every right to know what is going on not only under her roof but under her very nose, you are her children also and for all you know you "father" and I use the term loosley (no offence I am only passing judgement on what you have stated in this post and will endeavour to read the poems you have mentioned) as I was saying for all you know you father is abusing your mother too and maybe she need the extra strength from you guys, her kids to leave...if she doesn't know any better how can you expect her to help you and potentially help herself...
2) My second suggestion is to call Child Protection Agency - however I will prewarn that this can back fire and potentially cause you MORE issues at home, they will request evidence and the like and they will approach and question our father based on the allegations. Unfortunately if these cant be proven your stuck at home with a very angry dad that night so be extremely careful
3) My third suggestion and possibly last resort is to take your siblings and get the hell outta there - there are refuges and community non profit organisations set up specifically to help people and children in your situation...

Hunny goodluck Im sorry that you have had to go through so much pain and heartache from someone who is supposed to love care support and provide for you - you and your siblings deserve better than this and I will be praying for you all and also for your fathers soul...inshallah things will work out for you all please email me or comment or something on one of my poems to let me know how things are going...

Luv and Luck Eirisa

OMG What A STUPID IDIOTIC PERSON Who would want to do that to such a young child you need some serious help i can give you some numbers that you can call to get some help please use these

Child Abuse Hot-line
800-762-5200

Sexual assualt Hot-line

800-223-5001

family help hotline 1-800-996-6228 please use these and get help... ........

:>) Candi

Good luck Hailie and please let us know how you go!

Good luck hailie, I'm so sorry all this has happened to you and your sister x

hey girl

You need to try those numbers there will be someone there who will help you get out of that situation you need to talk to them and let them know that you need to get out of this and you need out now... dont think about it back fireing if you leave enough information it will get better... please try your hardest to get them to listen to you... they have to investigate every possible clue... you dont have to live through this pain and torture anymore neither do your sisters, this is a hard thing to get over i know the feeling... so call those numbers talk to a counsilar

I'm extremly sorry that you have to go thru that. I do agree that you need to tell your mom and I know this is bad, but I think you should keep "protection" in your room or some place that way if you feel as if your life is threatened than you can protect yourself. It's not against the law if its in self defense. But don't let him find it or it'll get real bad. And try and find outside sources to help, like child protection services or something like that. I hope it turns out alright for you. Good luck and I'll pray for you.

God Bless,
Cody