Happily ever afters or lies?

Is it just me, or is it exremely hard to find a decent guy to start a relationship with? Ive met all kinds of guys, but none of them are relationship material. Theres the guy that just wants the one night stand, the one thats looking for "the one", a guy that is constantly asking me out, even though i don't like him....the list goes on. I can't seem to find a guy worth having a relationship with. Am I too shallow and picky? Or is it just not as easy as meeting someone and falling in love?
I realize love is nothing like fairy tales, but love does exist right? Maybe some people never find it.... and if thats the case, why not? I grew up believing that we have two of almost everything, two hands, two legs, two eyes, ears, lungs, etc..., but only one head and one heart cuz someone else has it. Meaning someone out there is destined for you. Eventually your supposed to find the one with who you have understanding, compassion, comfort, and love, "your other half". Does that really happen, or is that just another lie, like the happily ever after's in fairy talles?

You can really find true love just it will take time, stop blaming yourself because you have had some bad experiences with some trivial guys.
don't find love let love find you because your continuing search for love will make you tired and hopeless .
it's just a matter of destiny and patience.
good luck

Stop trying to find one. Just go out, have fun, and enjoy the time you have with yourself. You'll feel better that way, not to mention you are more likely to meet someone when you stop trying to fit all the guys you know into your standard of relationship material. When you least expect it, somebody will stop by and sweep you off your feet.

Stop looking for one bc its something that happens when your least expecting it. Its hard to find one your right but thats the beauty of it. Your not supposed to look for that one. Girl just be patient and he'll fall into your lap. i promise and if you ever just wanna talk pm me.

Mm.. i don't agree with that..
it doesn't happen when you least expect it... it doesnt FALL into your lap...
luck doesn't exist.. you make your own luck..
your make your own choices, and you get the consequences that go along.
someone that just sits, and waits, isn't gonna get anything! you want to meet someone... go out? take groupe activities? sports? make new friends? i don't know, just go out there. Go look for him. (or her for anyone else.. )

cause waiting, isn't going to change anything.

You are not picky. You are selective. When you find the guy that drives you insane and you know he is great, then you will know. Plain and simple. For me, I don't look for someone. For many reasons actually because right when you stop looking, you find someone. lol it always seems that way. I say just relax and enjoy life. There is soo much more to life then guys hun. lol

Yea I guess that makes sense. And I know you have to work to keep a good thing going. But its finding the good thing in the first place that I seem to have a problem with. I have nothing but time though so Im just going to take it day by day. Thanks 4 the advice!

Anytime. If you ever need to talk more, my PM box is always open. I am an expert at this topic. lol