I Need some help.....

Okay. I was dating this guy for a couple months. We broke up the 24th of August.

But he called me last night to tell me he was getting married in 2 days.

How could he have love me? At all?

He keeps saying he regrets losing me. And that he'll always love me. But....how? I just don't get it.

Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks.

What a jerk. Take my advice and forget about him. He seems like such an idiot hun. And you deserve way better. On the 24th??!! That was 10 days ago! How could he break up with you and then get engaged in 10 flipping days? What?!! I don't know, but what I am saying is that it won't last long. I mean really.

I'm soo sorry this had to happen to you hun. Stay strong and my PM box is ALWAYS open if you need to talk.

You broke up 2 weeks ago and suddenly he is getting married? Be thankful you only lost a couple of months. Just accept it and move on. Love is easily said, without action it is nothing but a word.

Hi there =]

Firstly, really badd situation here -- sorry that it sucks so bad =[

Secondly, maybe he's just trying to make you jealous, and is trying to 'win you back'?

Just a thought.. =]

Good luck, and take care xx

xx

He isn't worth it

^No kidding. He is a jerk who needs dating lessons. You don't do that. I can't believe he broke up with you and then in 10 days he has the guts to find someone else?? I strongly dislike his decisions and I'd think you were crazy if you didn't leave him alone and move on.

The girl he's marrying (omg. tomorrow) had a miscarriage with his kid about 8 months ago. And they've known each other their whole lives

And I know that love without action is just a word. But that's just it....I meant it. I always do. So why don't they?

And believe me. He's not trying to win me back. He doesn't believe in second chances....at least not with me.

Wow! so soon!

That sucks for her..

Did you know that they had dated/known each other for all of them years? Do you think that maybe they broke up, and he turned to you as a rebound girl?

Maybe he can't see the real beauty in you =] And that he is blind.

But, from his side of the coin, maybe he realised he really loves this other girl, and really wants to marry her, but has never taken action.

I hope you're okay though =]

xx

Hmm that waS REALLY HURT,, BUT TRY TO TALK TO HIM AND LISTEN TO HIS EXPLANATION.. AND ACCEPT IT THOUGH ITS HARD...

GOODLUCK

Yea it sucks..... wat a jerk but the best thing to do is move on... something way better will come along... trust me it has happen to me berfore now i am with a guy and we ge together for 2yrs and our love for each other is so strong...

Thanks for all the advice you guys. :)

I appreciate it.

Np =]

I think maybe we all have been in an akward position, when the break up is bad, and then it is even worse afterwards LOL... but yea, definately move on =]

I wish you luck!

Take care =]

xx

Anytime hun. Just remember.....he DOES NOT deserve you.

I actually am going out tonite with a friend. I'm pretty excited. Cuz i WANT to be able to move away from the hold "he" has on me. And I think this is a good first step.

That is awesom! I am glad you are getting your mind off of him:)

Are you sure he wasn't cheating on you? Cause knowing that this girl had a miscarriage 8 months ago...maybe she's pregnant now and it's one of those duty marriages. But there's no way she could know if she was pregnant now if she became that way within 10 days. Just a possibility cause 10 days is just...fishy.

But everyone here is right. He doesn't deserve you and you should feel good about going out! He made his bed and now he has to lie in it. You are still free to make your own choices, so go out there and do some living :)