I'm so confused, I dont know what to do!

Well I'm currently in a relationship with this guy, Chris, who is so genuine. He hardly lies, and when he does it's to protect me. Everything is great except I'm worried about him. He can be a hot head but not towards me. The thing is Chris is really protective and I've been noticing something that lately. People that he used to get along with that dont like me or decide to tell him something about my past, he'll get real upset with. I know he cares about me a lot but I dont wana get in the way of his friendships. He tells me he's fine with it and that he'd rather choose me, but his friends keep telling me that since he's been dating me he's changed. Sure he's happier, but he's also more annoyed b/c of what some people are saying about me. I don't want to put anymore stress on him but no matter what I say he's too stubborn to listen about it. What should I do?

Ou nedd to dit him down face to face and have a real long talk about it. I am sure Chris will want to talk about it. I hjave been in this situation before, except I am the one who lost my friends. It turned out that he was a bad guy after all, but my friends were still there for me. And I gurantee if theyreally are his friends they will understand taht when you find someone you think that you will be with for the rest of your life, you nedd to take that shot. Whether it turns out to be good or bad. His friends should probably be more 'friendly' towards you anyway. If there is something they don't like about you, ask them what it is and why they dislike that about you. Then see what happens. Okay?

Thank you. I think I'll take your advice when I'm with them today. I'll let you know how it goes

Well first off, it's really on him whether he picks you or his friends, but i don't see a reseaon to have to pick one or the other...
and as far as his friends saying he's changed since he's been with u, thats not your fault! he makes his own decisions, he is his own person! everyone changes after being in relationships! people mature, find new hobbies and the most common thing is to spend less time with friends and more time with thier partner, but its all normal and u can't be blaimed for it!
and them telling him things about you and your past is just childish and none of thier buisness! you can't take back your past so you just have to work through the fact that you've done things he doesn't like.
but you definatly shouldn't see yourself as harmful or anything like that to him. it's all things that can be worked out and not something that is big enough to end your relationship!

Thanks so much. This really helped me a lot. I talked to him about it yesterday and he said he'd pick me over them, but I told him that he should hear them out and spend time with them so they dont feel he's completely ditching them. He did and everything's ok for now. Thank you all so much