March Azel
16 years ago
What is da most main reason y people wants to have another relationship while having a commitment to the other... |
Bloomed Rose
16 years ago
Maybe they aren't really that interested in the person that they area currently dating and its not a serious relationship, but they want to have a serious relationship with someone else.... and they dont break up with their current bf/gf becuase they are afraid of hurting that person.... i dont know, thats what i think from experience |
ChaoticallyMe
16 years ago
Human nature...I like lasagna and I like pad thai...and I'm often caught between choosing what to have for lunch because of such conflicts. "The problem is choice" or perhaps "the illusion of choice" haha |
The Queen
16 years ago
^I agree... |
ChaoticallyMe
16 years ago
I don't think it's wrong not to feel content. I don't mean going around cheating...but wouldn't that promote just settling for anyone even though you're not happy? |
ChaoticallyMe
16 years ago
Oops...haha |
ChaoticallyMe
16 years ago
Haha...thanks for pointing it out to me. I guess it depends on the focus. "Why people do that" vs "Should people to do that" |
Wasted Fake Smiles
16 years ago
I dont know why people do it..but its wrong. some people are never satisfied with that they have..always looking for the next person..someone better...someone closer to perfect. a lot of people cant be happy with the person they are with. lets say that fred loves sally, but fred meets jill who has more in common with fred..all of a sudden fred doesnt love sally and he leaves her. then hes with jill, but then fred meets jackie and she is prettier, he leaves jill for jackie. and it keeps going forever...fred is like my ex. always wanting the next best thing.... |
ChaoticallyMe
16 years ago
It's not wrong to like the better. It would be wrong for Fred to know that he wants the better one but goes with for the lesser just because it's easier or cause he only wants to mess around. Otherwise wouldn't Fred be lying to himself and the one he's with that he's happy? |
Michaela T
16 years ago
I think, It's because they don't really love the person they are commited to... |