Why there are some people that are not contented with their bf/g

  • March Azel
    16 years ago

    What is da most main reason y people wants to have another relationship while having a commitment to the other...

  • Bloomed Rose
    16 years ago

    Maybe they aren't really that interested in the person that they area currently dating and its not a serious relationship, but they want to have a serious relationship with someone else.... and they dont break up with their current bf/gf becuase they are afraid of hurting that person.... i dont know, thats what i think from experience

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Its because they are not satisfied with what they got. They like what they got, so they keep them, but still want more. I really pity those kind of people.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    16 years ago

    Human nature...I like lasagna and I like pad thai...and I'm often caught between choosing what to have for lunch because of such conflicts. "The problem is choice" or perhaps "the illusion of choice" haha

    The availability of choice can cause problems but good choices can make us happy :)

    If I eat both, or more, I'd be stuffed and would likely need a visit to the washroom (yuk...lasagna plus pad thai? haha). If I don't eat, I'd be hungry and could just settle for a hotdog. If I pick one of the two, I could be happy or I could be thinking why didn't I pick the other..or that hotdog could seem very appealing then.

    In the end, I'd still have to eat and realize that hey, this is just lunch. Lighten up. I've had all of those before and enjoyed all of them.

    haha :P there's plenty more evidence on how food can = life.

  • The Queen
    16 years ago

    ^I agree...
    Besides, people who never get satisfied with just one partner are people whom you should avoid and never be associated with for it truly shows what kind of principles they have and that applies to what kind of life they lead, relationship, how they interact at home/work to sum it up the assholes,jerks,b*tches and sl*ts you are encountering everyday.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    16 years ago

    I don't think it's wrong not to feel content. I don't mean going around cheating...but wouldn't that promote just settling for anyone even though you're not happy?

    Dating and relationships are suppose to be about finding out who/what you love...and not pick one and stick with it even if you're miserable.

  • ChaoticallyMe
    16 years ago

    Oops...haha

    Commitment issues...

    For sure, I don't support multiple partners unless that's what they're both looking for. Personally though, one-on-one is the way to go :D

  • ChaoticallyMe
    16 years ago

    Haha...thanks for pointing it out to me. I guess it depends on the focus. "Why people do that" vs "Should people to do that"

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    I dont know why people do it..but its wrong. some people are never satisfied with that they have..always looking for the next person..someone better...someone closer to perfect. a lot of people cant be happy with the person they are with. lets say that fred loves sally, but fred meets jill who has more in common with fred..all of a sudden fred doesnt love sally and he leaves her. then hes with jill, but then fred meets jackie and she is prettier, he leaves jill for jackie. and it keeps going forever...fred is like my ex. always wanting the next best thing....

  • ChaoticallyMe
    16 years ago

    It's not wrong to like the better. It would be wrong for Fred to know that he wants the better one but goes with for the lesser just because it's easier or cause he only wants to mess around. Otherwise wouldn't Fred be lying to himself and the one he's with that he's happy?

    I know that there's always better but when you're honestly not content with the current, is it so wrong to move on?

    Society's built on striving for the better :)

  • Michaela T
    16 years ago

    I think, It's because they don't really love the person they are commited to...

    Or probably, they are just really idiots who is fond on hurting other peoples feelings.