Need Advice

Before I tell you my problem, I'll give you some background info, and i must apologize for english is my second language and is not the best

I have known my friend D for 14 years. Lived through many things. This girl came along 4 years ago. She so beautiful, we both feel for her. She never choose and our friendship faded away. She become best friend, with the girl who hated me the most. I was done for, she would never let me near her. D had it easy, still never got had the guts to show his love. He has been her best friend for 4 years now. The girl who hated me, moved away.

We started talking more, become better friends. D asks me to stay away for all she does is talk about me to him. I have done all I can for him. Given him poems to give to her, and other acts that kill me slowly.

Prom is near, she asks me who am I going with. I tell her no one, and she says ditto. She told me that she won't go, unless someone she likes asks her to go. I felt the insinuation for the way she looked at me.

I am at a crucial point, do I take her to prom and hurt my friend. D friendship has becoming so much closer since i stated helping him get her. He is not brave enough to act. Stuck in the friends zone D has been for so long. He is so jealous that she only speaks about me to him, what am i to do???

You have to decide what's more important to you.
A. Your friendship
OR
B. This girl

But remember your friend has been a part of your life for a long time and girls come and go.

Yeah I know

still my friend has had his time, four years and hasn't done a single move.

His stuck in the friends zone, and even if he acts he won't be able to get her

I still have a chance

Talk to your friend about how you feel...if yall r as close as you say you are then he should understand.

Thankz for your advice

i will do so

I think friends should come first no doubt about it you are young if it is meant to happen it will one day fait is wierd it guides you with out you even knowing yes she wants you to take her to prom but is it worth your friendship. girlfriends come and go but friends stay as long as you let them you need to make a choice

krysten

If I were you I wouldn't break my friend's heart..

Been there. Trust me, I know how difficult it is. But if D really is your friend, then you'll have to let go of the girl. It might help talking to your friend cuz it's not like they both ARE in a relationship as of yet. And your friend too knows how you feel. Also, maybe you guys should somehow try to find out what the girl feels and whom she feels for... So that maybe then you guys could make up your mind about what to do and not destroy your friendship in the process.

Hope this helps!

EDIT: OK, so I just re-read and you've known for friend for 14 years??! I think that's long enough for you to decide whom to choose. But, since it seems the girl might be interested in you, I think it's best in the end to talk to your friend.

I think definitely friends come first.

haven't you ever heard bro's before hoe's?
i don't know if im allowed to say that ^ on here,
I say you need to tell your friend and if he's not okay with it, which he won't be you should choose your friend over the girl..

i've learned in my situation that guys come and go..and for you girls will too!